Something doesn't feel right

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Do You know the feeling when you try out something new on your own again FOR the third time! and it just doesn’t feel right? I do.
So I masturbated and was thinking of someone but it didn’t feel right today so I switched my thinking.
I think the same goes for if I had a boyfriend it would feel not right to be thinking of some specific other person unless both parties are ok with that (LOL?) and I actually wanted to be thinking of them at least at first.
I suppose there is a reason for that. So I will stop thinking of that person like that now during masturbation if I masturbate again and if I had a boyfriend.

Gosh I can’t believe how sexually explicit Ive been Im going to try my best to cut down on that kind of talk.

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This might be fun for the boys in your life. If you know what I mean

But for you it seems it isn’t healthy, just be careful to who you disclose to cause some guys might take advantage of that

And for surely talk with your pdoc about this. Don’t be shy

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yea it felt like I really needed to for first two rounds to do it, to get some relief, and sleep, but now it doesnt feel right anymore in this particular third round I’m talking about.

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What do you mean by round? You mean masturbation?

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yes.
I feel kind of bad about it.
Should one feel bad about thinking about someone when they masturbate?
I kind of do unless I bring it up with them it makes it more ok but still bad maybe I was desperate to sleep and stuff but is that really an excuse I don’t know

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You should definitely don’t ask any person if you can masturbate while thinking of them. It’s just creepy and youre at risk of being taken advantage of…

You need to talk with your pdoc, you weren’t like this a few months ago.

Even if you jump at the first guy you met and give yourself to him maybe you’ll get some release but you might be embarrassed after.

You sure don’t seem in a good state to get a boyfriend who will not take advantage of your hornyness.

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If you told someone that they might react by being a little shocked to be honest.

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I would always say it’s better to fantasize about someone then do something illegal toward them sexually.

Lol I used to masturbate in my head a lot not watching porn.

If I REALLY liked a girl I just couldn’t do it. Their image would not show up in my mind it didn’t do justice.

But if it was just lust I would do this all the time

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I think it’s because I think he is not suitable for my needs ever in any sexual kind of way anymore, so it’s weird to be thinking of him during the masturbation i did today.
Just my shot of what I believe.
I want to give him space of my fantasizing cos it feels better that way
I am just not a very confident woman ya know?, maybe it’s to do with that as well I don’t know exactly
whatever else to say I don’t know
just think I’m not the one so what’s the point

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I think my sex drive is a little high too, I think it would be ok if I had a partner.

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Yea maybe you are right.
Do u think meds play a part as well

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Not sure, for me I think it is because I’m single.

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I don’t feel as bad when i watched porn compared to someone that i thought of today becuase at least the pornstars have a purpose for why they do their porn movies. Do u know what I mean?

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