I just met a guy from church a week ago, and he wants to try only being Friends With Benefits to see if it clicks as he put it. I told him I could probably deal with that depending on how he defines it.
It looks like we are both interested in each other. I told him my thing in life was I needed someone I care about, and I’ve been adrift ever since my mom died February of 2018.
Anyway it looks like I’m all set now.
Call me old fashion but in my experience of hearing stories of friends with benefits it usually never ends well. The thing about sex is that there will always be some emotional attachment over the course of time for at least onenperson involved. Despite that, I think it isn’t all that bad of an idea so long as you just think of it as a fun fling and don’t go with the expectation of the relationship budding into an actual romantic relationship. More like just a life experience to let loose.
Oddly enough, lately I sometimes unwillingly have fantasies about having a tryst with the lady who rents the pool house. She’s older but I find her very attractive. I don’t mean to but sometimes I wake up thinking about a sexual fling with her. I wouldn’t act on it because I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable nor cause problems with her renting here and I have conflicting feelings about those thoughts. I honestly do not mean to have them and try to avoid them. Sometimes I just think it would be an interesting life experience for both of us to have sex for fun. It may be because I haven’t had sex in so long. These are mostly private thoughts and I don’t really want to fantasize about them. They just seem to happen. I’d never really actually been attracted to an older woman like that. There aren’t any real romantic feelings and I won’t even try to try it.
Thanks for the advice @schizophrenisaurus
Lol my fantasy is basically like, “please teach me about sex again beautiful lady.” Sorry to go slightly off topic. I just felt I could relate because of those thoughts.
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