Social anxiety

So today I had a barbeque with all of my friends. I panicked and had alot of anxiety this was the first time I have been around many adults in a social setting my own age although I did enjoy it I had alot of anxiety and I was really nervous to the point others noticed and pointed it out. I have to keep doing things like this so I can become more comfortable. It was hard though trying not to feel bad about my first outing.

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I’m sorry you felt that way. I get really bad social anxiety too, even around family. People don’t seem to understand why I get nervous around family, but I do. I was once diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder.

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Not giving a ■■■■ helps a lot, just do whatever makes you happy even it it feels strange to other people.

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i have social anxiety too…fair play to you for facing it in such a way

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Anxiety here, specially when voices are picking on me, telling me everything I say is wrong, that everyone hates me, etc etc

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Give yourself credit for going and trying your best. Maybe we can build our self esteem by giving ourselves more credit. Just be patient, it might take a while. Give yourself credit for posting on here too.

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Thank you because I’ve been playing everything over and over in my head on how it went and its eating at me. I did the best that I could with all the anxiety that I had. I know I’m going to be labeled the weird and awkward of the bunch but it’s okay I can take that.

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