So I went to a party yesterday

I went to a party. I had fun but left early.

I found a girl interested in me that I also like. She was looking for convo and sometimes sitting right next to me.

I have less in common with her than with the first girl (the shy one). But I like her physically a lot. She sexy.

Anyways. Yesterday I didn’t want to proceed further, if you know what I mean, because I really want to try with the first girl and I don’t want to be perceived by her like some sort of womanizer. I’m that stupid yeah, but I would consider bad etiquette to go out with the girl at the party.

Should I care just about myself and try with the second girl?

Should I wait for if the first girl (the shy one, that only responds in single words, but checks me out when I’m not looking) to know her intentions first?

I’m kinda torn between these two options tbh.

@Zoe @AKendrick

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Bro… Be friends with both and see where it goes. Might help the first girl get over being Soo shy?

Idk bro… I can’t keep/get a girl to save my life lol

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Wuzup @Tulane I’m not here too much anymore and I guess you as well. Just tag me if you find some interesting music bro!

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If the shy gal isn’t giving you much time, with one word responses and stuff, I would go for the girl at the party. She sounds more outgoing, which is good for you, too. Just my 2 cents

haha I’ve been looking for the music threads you’ve made. I’ll just tag ya in the main music thread. Take care, man!

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I really fell I would ■■■■ it up with the first girl if I try something with both…

It’s delicate lol. But I’m way better emotionally since this morning…

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Yeah I’m on the verge of adding her on IG. The thing is like I’m discovering I want a partner for now. Not some ONS. Idk I have been a while without partner.

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I gotcha. Yeah, this could be a tricky situation. If you keep going to more parties, you’re gonna mingle with more women. Which is a great thing haha I haven’t been to a party since freshman year of college.

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Dude just worry about finding your soulmate. But if the first girl is communicating that she’s interested maybe it’s time to move on. Sometimes it’s just not meant to be.

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I mean she literally stares at me when I’m not looking. But she awkward af lol. I’m taking it slow as Zoe suggested me. Trying to just be friendly and all that.

Second girl is just more experienced I think.

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The thing is that I’m not doing anything with the first girl. It’s a stale. I’m just waiting for her to open up (or at least open up and talk to me like she does with other people she has more confidence with). Then I can tell if she wants something or just be friends, which btw is cool.

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Just be friends with them both.

If u find them both attractive somehow.

See wat happens

My 2 cents.

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Ok mrs. Open relationship :rofl:

Tbh it’s not who I want to be as a person. But you’re right. I’ll add her on IG.

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Lol miss open relationship :joy::joy::joy::joy:

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Good luck mate.

The right girl will be the right girl.

Things fall into place with time.

Just need to do trial n error innit tho.

What did u find sexy about girl number 2?

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I mean, she was objectively sexy + glasses which are a turn on lol. Beautiful smile and a cute hat.

Idk maybe she was drunk yesterday. I added her to IG. It seems she has 2k+ followers.

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I know you’re interested in this so I’ll go into more detail. The way she moves, dances and behaves herself. A lot of small details…

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Are you in your twenties?

I thought you were born in 1954 for some reason haha cos of your name

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I’m 34 y.o. lmao! Why, tho?

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Bro…I’m older than you :face_exhaling:

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Nice dude.

Haven’t been to a party since a little after my college days.

Would be cool to go to one; I might look into it.

Hope U had a good time @dreamer54

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