She said she wanted to hangout today or tmrw

This girl I’m talking to online she’s 39 and she said she thinks she’s single because guys think she’s a lesbian. I said “oh do you mean like tomboy” and she said yes.

She wears basketball shorts and wife beaters often lol.

She’s got kinda a spunkyness to her. Because I had previously asked if she was a “girly girl” and she said “oh baby boy I’m no girly girl” or something really energetic too and I find her cute/attractive/funny.

But she said she definitely wants to hang out in the next few days.

For a while I was worried she wouldn’t text me but then she did. And then she was ignoring me I thought, I didn’t say anything but she said “I’m not ignoring you I’m just busy”.

But she kinda threw me a curveball towards my image of her when she described herself as “masculine” nevertheless I’m still very attracted/interested to her.

Not more, but not less either.

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Thats great! What are you planning on doing with her?

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Were going to collaborate on a common interest/concern all I will say. :frowning:

Or maybe I’ll say

Our activity is not typically healthy for schizophrenics to do, nevertheless it’s productive for me, but shouldn’t be mentioned here, nonetheless.

But the fact she does said activity is what bonded us together.

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Oh and she told me her name and it’s beautiful but she says she hates her name.

Maybe it’s cuz it’s a girly name and she’s a “tomboy”

I hope you have fun together! :slight_smile:

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maybe think twice about doing something that is bad for psychosis. even a relationship is not worth a psychosis. But it’s your decision. Only you know how the activity affects you.

I hope you have a good time. :slight_smile:

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Make sure you wear protection unless you actually want to become a daddy.

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Call me critical - but the thought that went thru my head was that she was a post-op Transexual.
Not that theres anything wrong with that of course. It just crossed my mind.

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I don’t want kids of myself but she has 2 kids already. If I didn’t feel a certain way about her I wouldn’t date a girl with two kids. But the feelings are great here we’ve been texting this morning. She’s special to me. She also works a job with 18 month-36 month olds. So she seems responsible which I value. I haven’t had an opportunity like this ever before im not gonna dwell on what’s not perfect in the relationship. I’m not sure if a girl I like this much will come along and seem possible for a while.

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Haha no she has 2 kids

I think she’s just kinda androgynous. And she might be overstating.

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Haha ok - It was the first thing that popped into my mind lol. Get your rocks off then fella and bloody well enjoy yourself with her. Love is a wonderful thing.

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