A year and a half ago I hung out with a girl. We really hit it off. Great date and all with someone I have attraction to in looks and personality (or so I thought)
Maybe I was wrong because after the date I texted her and told her a little about my mental illness.
She said not much but never responded again when I was asking her out. I just figured oh must be me or her or some non concrete issue
Well I messaged her recently on POF (where we met) saying she should consider me. And she straight up starts saying bs like I don’t hang out with crazy people and such.
I didn’t say too much but she blocked me
Obv she’s not my type . But it’s just sad to me people think this way ugh
But I’m handling it fine
And doing great
Maybe I’ll write a song about it. But I won’t say anything too distasteful or anything
Ok all Im gonna say. Just looking for a little support. Don’t need much. Imma thrive.
I find that sort of thing really soul-destroying. And like you hinted at, it’s not socially acceptable for a man to respond with “all women are ■■■■■■■”. I’m angry for you right now.
If she is late 20’s, early 30’s then she is at prime breeding age according to this capitalist economy and biology, so a prime candidate needs the ideal genetics, money and security.
She probably doesn’t realise this herself, but will reject anybody that doesn’t meet these requirements. How she does it is a reflection of her personality.
It wasn’t pleasant how she did it, but lesson learned.
You’ll find someone else with what you have to offer in the end. Keep going and chin up!