So, without consulting any of us, my boyfriends mother send a message to my mother, who is currently with her husband in Denmark. She wrote her sort of a short complaint about her not being here for me and my child, emotionally and/or financially.
Of course, I strongly disagree with this act and I would never suggest her to take care of us in any possible way…so it was this woman’s solely idea.
Then…my mother’s husband replied with the most poisoning and harsh words I have ever heard about myself. He wrote that I am lazy to work and I’m using my kid for financial and other benefits from people, that both me and my bf are greedy and ungrateful, and something more, even worse
Well…I’m crying and shaking. I feel like my head is going to explode.
I couldn’t believe that they think such things about me.
Am I that bad? Even if I am…I am not profiting from the love and care ness other people give to my kid. That is so evil to say…
I will break all contacts with them.
I hate them so much and I wish them to die now.
That is really mean… he must be a horrible person. Maybe having no contact with him and your mom is a good idea… But are you sure your mom shares his opinions?
Can you find something to do to distract you from this until you are calmer? Sorry you have to deal with this. It is not okay for him to be so judgmental and hateful towards you. I don’t care what his reasons are, it’s wrong. Try not to let that douchebag get to you.
Wow. You’re right to cut ties. ■■■■ anyone that would day such harsh things. How awful! You deserve kind supportive people in your life and they are clearly neither of those things.
I’m so sorry @Sarad usually when people do or say bad things, it’s a reflection of their self not yours.
don’t take his words to your heart and they don’t mean anything. enjoy your weekend, have some candy and snuggle your baby
I think you should take some time to calm down. I’d phone your mother and explain what happened with your boyfriend’s mother. Sending 'internet ’ messages is what caused this. I think a phone call would be better.
I’m really sorry this happened to you. Family sometimes just don’t know how to deal and lash out.
Give the situation time to breathe, act on it later. Calm down, you’re not a bad person we’re sure of it, don’t let the words he said get to you. He’s not even family, and if that’s his opinion you’re better away from him.
…I don’t agree. Not all parents are like that, again, that’s a generalization. And off-topic, and a kind of negativity and talk that sarad doesn’t need in her thread. Not helpful at all.
and snuggle your baby
get some rest