Sex first date conserative

My ex or whatever you want to call him he had been engaged someone else then after we met had sex on first date started talking hanging out watching movies a girl he had been friends with claimed they had been dating this whole time and then left him another man after I was like nah not keeping him after lied and took him from me and then she got pregnant several years later at twenty one but I’m thirty four no kids and I’m wild one. The man made up lies about me and made my life he’ll is this all because we had sex first date so I’m some wild slur to him while miss thing is innocent while stole him from me ,lied,got knocked up young ,does drugs,been arrested. I dated and been with a lot of guys less than twenty in past but she’s lot younger then me and so has she but Ihad been celibate for 5 years until started messing around this guy now been celibate 4 years. I feel judged if sleep with anyone. She’s slept with two guys afterwards both meth heads and got knocked up young but was engaged to both so suppose to be miss goody two shoes. I’m just venting dunno what question is. Like said would love date but feel like right now my reputation rests on being single celibate and that’s what people want me go out randomly hook up some guy cus I’m tempted and get judged

I feel like i got lied about drug through mud because he considers me more wild in conservative sense and even though I’m friends with his cousin and she’s no more innocent than me. Am I overthinking this.

I’m not sure what you’re trying to say, but if you want to have sex on the first date, do it.
Haters gonna hate. There will always be someone who doesn’t like something you do, focus on the ones who do like you and forget the rest.
Who cares what your ex thinks.

And also, your grammar is very hard to understand. I know typing and spelling can be hard, but I just wanted to let you know I think you’d get more replies if you put some effort into making your sentences more clear and understandable.
I just see your posts asking for help, and I feel bad you don’t get replies because you’re not understood.

It’s not complicated and I’m not bad at English if read and understand. I slept with a guy when I was 30 on first date and he was 38. I w as friends with his cousins and he was friends with my cousins . We slept together more than a few times,called,tested,watched movies . He had been engaged to a girl but i was under impression it was over. Then another girl friends with my cousin and friends with him who was 19 says they had been dating for years ,broke up and getting back in together. I called her Burch and got mad. I’m not allowed to call her out on her lie and call her hoe because I dated a lot and been with lot of guys (less than twenty) so it’s not love it’s just one more man and I’m too wild to call her out her lie,or fact that she’s wild or she does meth. I feel like her and guy I was seeing was trying to make me out to be wild,less prettier or b word. The y made up bunch lies that I pushed myself off on him,she was there whole time,I looked in his Windows,I slept with him one time,fact that she had been dating him. I think it was all done to make me look bad

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