I posted a lot about dating. A heck of a lot. I think I’ve made myself sound like I sleep around a lot and no judgement to those who do but I don’t and I’m not stupid to not consider risks despite the symptoms 
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well i dunno what your doing and sometimes i just skim through posts. Maymbe your just in the moment, i think thats fine. hopefully you can get me a date lol (might consider)
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I think you’re okay, you don’t sound like someone who sleeps around a lot. You’ve talked about it in some of your posts, you seem to be very careful and not promiscuous at all. Don’t worry about it too much @anon80629714.
I kinda skim posts too, but if I’m not completely off base, I think I read that you’re in your first serious relationship? I might’ve misread. Anyway, congrats, you identified something you wanted to improve in your life (Dating and serious relationship) and achieved it. That’s a big deal that deserves all the positive attention.
Unless, I’m misreading things again.
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You’re good, girl. I have a boyfriend and I’m more of a slut) then you lol. It’s not about having sex either, it’s more of a lifestyle choice with lots of tit pics and revealing clothes.
At least that’s what me and my friends think when we talk about slut) power and all that stuff. It’s a way to take the power away from derogatory labels.
As women, we do not have the full luxury of asserting our sexuality the way men do. We have been conditioned to harshly judge women based on sexual conduct.
I could go on but I don’t want to be a bore. Either way you’re definitely not slutty. Or promiscuous, or a whore or whatever else. You’re just a normal young woman in my eyes.
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Enjoy your life @anon80629714 I never thought ill of you though your old tagline of the serial dater was enough for me to think hey she has it together. 
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This 
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Some people will think that but a lot of people won’t. Personally, I don’t think that about you. We are in a community where people will see things that are not real because some of people’s brains are broken.
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I’ve been following the saga of Ish . I know you don’t sleep around. Hear that people?
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But hell, if wasn’t for your dating life I’d have nowhere to put my best jokes.
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I’ll be honest, I think two things. Either you date a lot and just can’t help talking about it because its such a big part of your life. Or you want to project that image, of being someone who dates a lot, for whatever reason. I’m not accusing you of anything, these are just my ideas.
There’s actually a third one, maybe you date a lot because of mania/hypomania. And that’s your only manifestation of it in your life. Kind of like people who can’t help going on shopping sprees when manic. They’re awfully specific behaviors, but they reflect underlying mental health issues, benign, slightly bad, or very serious.
It’s cool. I find it refreshing because most folk go through those phases in life and it’s good to be reminded of them! Life is to be enjoyed so don’t let the judgments or opinions of others stop you living to the fullest! You go girl!
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@rogueone Is right! Everyone goes through this, you’re not a tart for wanting to talk about it.
Be liberated! Enjoy yourself! One life to live and all that 
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Anyone who believes you sleep around a lot has obviously not been paying any attention whatsoever 
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Don’t worry about whether or not you may seem like a ■■■■ to people. There’s nothing wrong with that at all so long as you’re safe about it, even if you were sleeping around heavily!
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