I think he took it well

The other day when I met him I was having some trouble looking at his face. Then when we got home I told him why I kept looking around. He said he was wondering why I kept looking at the food. I told him that I couldn’t look into his eyes because my eyes kept focusing on his lips and it was embarrassing hence why I kept looking at the food. And how my heart kept feeling weird. He says that makes him smile all day when he thinks about what I said :flushed::flushed::flushed: so yeah he said that was our first date. We met two times before.

I also went a bit far and told him I feel things for him sexually and I think I said too much but he took that well.

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Nice!

It took guts to really tell him what was going on,

And the truth about your feelings!

Great to hear it worked out well.

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Well yeah we talk about sex now although I’m not sure if it’s too soon. But there’s a difference between saying and doing and he wants to wait as do I until we both ready.

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He sounds very respectful,

And like an adult person,

Which is difficult to find when you’re dating men…

:rofl:

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:slightly_smiling_face: yes he wants to get past the hugging and kissing first as he knows it’s difficult for me. And he doesn’t have much experience either so he tells me he will be awkward with kissing.

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OH MY GOD,

That is so sweet!

Now I wish I was attracted to nicer guys!

I love it, I’m so excited for you,

He sounds like a catch.

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I’m so happy for you! It sounds like you guys are really clicking and communicating openly and all those good things!

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I never used to see him that way. Something changed.

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I like we talk about all things. If it’s uncomfortable we happy to revisit the topic to talk. Communication feels like the best part. And that’s what’s making it work so far. I feel.

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You are currently attracted to bad guys? :thinking:

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I’m proposing next year wish me all the best :flushed:

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Communication is so important. I never communicated with any of my partners before my husband. With him, it was just so easy to say things that I had always held inside before. And it made me actually learn to trust him.

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I know right. It helps to understand each other and know each other and feel comfortable with each other :slightly_smiling_face:

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If I understand correctly @anon80629714, you seem to have met a certain guy,
and you want to develop a relationship with him.
Good luck to you!

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That is correct…

Think that was my issue. Wanting a bad guy but when you dig deep the nice guys are actually “bad” without being bad :joy: does that mAke sense :joy:

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Yes it does,

All of us are scummy in our own weird way…

:rofl:

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