Went on a first date with someone I’ve been texting daily for a few months today. Most of the time we vibe but sometimes he says things that feel off to me but he’s so nice that I’m not sure what to think. I like him, but for example today he kind of pestered me about sleeping on the first date , when I had explicitly said twice before the date I was not interested in that. I told him flat out on the date I need to take things slow and he said he understood. He was very awkward (I am too and most of my friends are too so I’m not judging), so I’m wondering if there’s some misunderstanding going on.
By the way the date was me and my best friend playing a few songs at an open mic night and he joined us for dinner
Ooh that’s annoying. Wanting to sleep on a first date and then pestering about it.
It’s actually a big red flag.
Unless he learnt that it’s not for you and respects that and is happy with you nevertheless.
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First dates are awkward, meeting for the first time is very different from texting.
Keep texting and see where it goes.
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Yeah that’s how I’m feeling. We otherwise get along great. And he gives me butterflies
After talking with a couple of friends, including one that was there, pressuring me for sex on the first date after being explicitly told I was not interested in that is a huge red flag.
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I agree, you had already made it clear that you were not interested in sex on the first date. He is being disrespectful
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That’s a big red flag. …
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Go at a pace comfortable for you, don’t let anyone force or pester you into things you aren’t ready for. Good luck
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In my opinion, he fully disrespected you, and does not deserve your time. He’s treated you very badly by doing that
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