Dang it he just said the most perverted things to me. What is wrong with people. I’m not doing too good at this internet dating thing. Oh well at least he showed his true colors before I met him. Oh lord what if I was stuck at a coffee shop and he started talking like that, I would’ve been mortified. whew!
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Where are you meeting all these pervy guys?
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I met one on POF and one on Mingle2, I met another on POF but he hasn’t been pervy yet, he seems to be old fashioned so that’s good.
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Good luck, leaf. I hope the old fashioned guy is what he seems to be.
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Thanks @Happy_H me too he wants to take me to lunch this weekend, I haven’t made up my mind yet. I’m kind of scared he’ll turn into a perv too with the luck I’ve been having.
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If you go somewhere public and don’t sit somewhere secluded, it will be easy enough to get out of there fast. Carry a $20 bill with you so you can drop it on the table (to pay for your meal) and leave ASAP if you need to. Don’t let him walk you to your car; say goodbye in the restaurant.
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I’m seeing a guy that was a little too forward for me. I just told him that and he has been respectful ever since
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Oh awesome ideas, thanks
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This guy was extremely graphic in what he wanted to do and It was disgusting, there was no going back from that. lol I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
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Heya leaf, hope your days going well.
Dudes behavior was unacceptable, you don’t say stuff like that before even having coffee, the one who said he wanted to kiss you was skirting the line. This guy blew right past the line. I’m sorry he did that to you.
I have to ask though a few questions though. Are you messaging these guys first? Or are they contacting you?
Do you guys ever have an honest talk about expectations?
What are your expectations?
Does it still feel like cheating on your ex?
You’re in a sensitive spot. Making a lot of changes lately. I can understand wanting some companionship. But I don’t think you’ll find it via that venue. Those site are known hook-up pages, with little moderation or oversight.
“Bumble” Might be more your speed, it uses Facebook profiles, and the women have to make the first move if interested. It helps filter out some of the more aggressive A-holes.
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Oh ok, I’ll check out bumble. Sounds good. I didn’t know the others were for hookups. That kind of explains a lot. Yes we were talking back and forth a bit first, but I think I was being a bit naïve. I’m sure there are some nice guys though too, and the creeps just push it faster. I’ll go my own pace and if they don’t like it they can find someone who wants to go fast.
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My friend has the same online dating experience. She gets used and ditched a lot. But I’ve known others who met their spouse through internet dating
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I went on a coffee date with a guy from a dating site. He brought me his resumè because he thought it would help me know him better lol.
When I was doing coffee dates I had no issue ending it quickly if it wasn’t going to work. No use wasting time.
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