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What turns on a woman the most during foreplay ?
if anyone is comfortable sharing
I’ve been in my current relationship for twelve years,
We’re not just doing it like crazy like we were in the beginning.
With various stresses and his mother moving in with us things have cooled off considerably.
This year one of my goals is to have more sex.
I’d be healthy for both of us.
But how often does the average person, in a relationship, have sex?
And not like a new relationship when you’re just at it all the time,
A seasoned relationship.
I guess it depends a lot on the individual,
But I’d like to know other people’s habits,
If you don’t mind sharing.
Enthusiasm and ability to communicate.
Depends on the woman. Everyone has different likes and dislikes. The best thing is to ask. Some people aren’t open to communications and are embarrassed to say what they like. In that case try something and follow their body cues.
Ill try and help, but my longest relationship I’ve been in was like a year and a half.
I’m guessing your husband works full time ?
After work, he’s probably all spent and just wants to sleep.
I’d say try early in the mornings or the weekends. You could easily have sex like 3 - 4 times a week.
I’ve read that once or twice a week is good for those in a long term relationship. We go a lot longer, though my husband would prefer more.
Yeah, I’m okay at doing that.
Probably the best thing to do imo.
Talking about what you like and dislike can lead to a lot better sex. After 19 almost 20 years, my husband and I can play each other like a well tuned violin.
Besides having kids, that’s like the only benefit of marriage for me 
Three to four times a week is a lot for us.
I was thinking maybe once a week,
Have like a Sexy Saturday or something.
We’re both exhausted at the end of weekdays and he’s always pretty rushed to get to work in the mornings.
My husband would prefer more too, but we’re always so tired.
Hopefully I’ll be able to pull off once a week.
That’s doable, I think.
You ever notice though that after sex you get sleepy? I know that my ex husband right after sex would fall asleep in like 30 seconds.
Yes,
We both get super sleepy after sex.
Orgasms are a great stress release and I think it’s just natural to want to sleep afterwards.
lol yes I have noticed this too with guy I was seeing before
Mr. Star and I oscillate wildly between 5 times a week or once every three months. We are asexual, and usually prefer masturbation to actual mutual intercourse. So I guess it depends on what you consider sex. We enjoy taking care of ourselves together like 2-3 times a week. We will have penetrative sex if we have time to shower before and after, but otherwise the mess is too gross for us.
Really
Can i try ?
My obsesstion always penis size
It is short may be 12 cm erected i didnt measure it recently
While most of time when not erected it always shrinked 
I dont feel i am normal man
What is a guy’s favourite sex position and why ?
I like when the knees are up to the face becuase you can get a good ram at it then and legs spread of course
Doggystyle.
For me, personally, it just looks and feels 
What about for women ? The most I hear is missionary or cowgirl.
I would have penetrative vaginal penis sex once or twice per week cos I am not a fan of too much condom lubrication in there that’s the reason. all that chemicals I don’t like it too much in there all the time
and then a few times mutual masturbation, depending on how horny we are. don’t wanna overdo it thou