ok, you guys tell me when was the last time you hit the clubs?
Get a wing man who is a good opener, remember entrance training-it all depends on your expressions in the first ten minutes going into a place. Have fun and smile, have a drink before you go even.
Thatād be a pretty sweet trade. Some months that ā ā ā ā works out for me and itās super easy to get girls talking and whatnot. Other times, like now, I have this vague feeling like I donāt know what the hell Iām doing, just having that feeling is enough to make that ā ā ā ā impossible as in it wonāt work.
Last night was a good night though. Maybe Iām coming out of it.
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iāve only ever been in a club once
With your current events knowledge you can spark a conversation with anyone. You can talk about anything that you want, as long as your wingman succeeds with his opening.
This is all quite easy if you just do a bit of rehearsals with your wingman.
Have you thought about church? Or maybe book clubs? Or activist clubs made up of people like you? Maybe you could instigate for humanist causes.
It is a lot like that, PUAā¦itās selling yourself to women. I have been with a GF for almost two years now. We live together and the only thing that says we arenāt married is the state.
Anyhow, when I was younger-and I wanted to find the perfect one in my life I became more imaginative with ideas to become attractive to that possible one.
Itās going to bite your ass if you abuse it, just like anything else. Eventually, after finding that one-I recommend for people to settle down and have a great life instead of being a sex salesman.
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thanks crimby, i was hoping to join a scuba diving club but its cold here and its mostly men that do that, i want to join a fishing club too but again āno girlsā
my best bet is college but i think they will all be younger than me and iāll be like ehhh 
ā ā ā ā having a wing man. Itās more difficult to just find the right kind of girls. Let alone ones who arenāt caught up in layers of social commitment.
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Iād love a fantasy book club actually. Missed our states renaissance fair which is just so expensive. Went to Japanese gardens yesterday morning then off to dinner at a fair twenty minutes away.
I love hanging out with my lady, I think this ones a keeper!
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At many colleges they have Amnesty International groups. (In case you donāt know, Amnesty International is a human rights group that campaigns for political prisoners of tyrannical governments. They do a lot of good.) You could find a great place to socialize and do a huge service to humanity at the same time.
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Look up the movie hitch, in the army at ft bragg I introduced a buddy to his air force wife. It was really adorable. Anyhow, just keep trying and realize that maybe the bar scene isnāt all that necessarily.
I think you could me someone on meetup.com itās not a dating site itās group meetings in your local area.
Meetup.com doesnāt entitle you to have to meet anyone except group members, and you can learn how to be comfortable with a new crew.
Since it will be Sunday by the time we get anywhere. How about bible studies? Your bound to meet some nice girls that way. Church does often do some nice social functions. If I remember rightly your into that, right?
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thats a great idea crimby, i will need to look at whats happening in the college with clubs and things if i can, i think it will be hard enough doing my course though than joining a college group, sounds like i good idea though
I was a great wingman, I had a lot of confidence with my buddy and we went out and met ladies in Chicago. Conned our way into clubs early and got free drinks saying we were location scouts for the sci fi channel.
I guess PUA and Con Artistry go hand in hand a bitā¦
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If I were to get with a christian girl she better respect that I donāt want to here a single word about anything supernatural. Otherwise itād be a no holds bar ordeal of me trying to turn her athiest.
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well there is no-one my age in my church really, i would have to go around all the churches looking and i dont want to do that,
Turn around stick it out show the world church girl!
It would compliment greatly any political science class you took. You could write papers on the situations in countries with bad human rights records.
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Funny I thought we were helping @asgoodasitgets, my mistake.