Ridiculed for needing people

It’s difficult enough for we szs to have the courage to reach out and it doesn’t help any when we get ridiculed about seemingly infantile dependencies. For example, a fear of being abandoned.

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Forget your label as much as possible, that way the emotions your carry for having it do not come across in your speech and tone when you are seeking your needs.

I’ve noticed, if I’m upset about having sz I am significantly more incapacitated at good communication to get what I want out of a dialogue. When I am content with everything around me though, or rather with myself and where or what I am. I am usually more able to get a dialogue to go more in my favour.

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