I’ve been crying ever since I suggested that we find someone else because I realized at the same moment I said it that I am lost without her.? Angela hasn’t worked in five months and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better and I was confused by this but she says “this is the last time” I am going to break up with her so I guess this is it. I feel like a fool.
I’m sorry things didn’t work out. What caused you to break up?
Is she on this forum?
just the bad poverty we have that happens living on my disability check. It’s really hard and it’s been five months so I guess that just wore me down to wanting to break up…am I a bad person?
no, she’s not on this forum…she’s a “normal”.
You’re not a bad person. Living in poverty is a very stressful situation. Sometimes, loving someone just isn’t enough. You also have to be able to be a team working together through the hard times. If you guys aren’t a team, then maybe she’s just not right for you.
You can get SNAP benefits if you get disability. I get about $110 a month. Please apply, because they will accept you.
I’m sorry things turned out like this, jukebox. Maybe you can get back together. Never say never.
@metime I make too much on disability…they offered me SNAP benefits but it was like $17 a month…thanks for caring though.
@crimby I wish it was simple like that…she won’t even talk to me now.
i’m sorry @jukebox, I know how hard it is to live in poverty. that’s what kay and I are use to. we lived off my ssi for three years while kay struggled to find work.
Ohh, I’m so sorry Juke
You’re not a bad person… but be sure it’s the right reason.
Hey, Juke
I remember you two from way back
you guys might trip and stumble over the ‘paranoid’ thing from time to time
but it’s an accessory; not the true you or her.
Maybe she’ll see your post and get back in touch
My husband says - “Love is great, but it doesn’t pay the bills.”