Remorse and grief over breaking up with Angela

I’ve been crying ever since I suggested that we find someone else because I realized at the same moment I said it that I am lost without her.? Angela hasn’t worked in five months and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better and I was confused by this but she says “this is the last time” I am going to break up with her so I guess this is it. I feel like a fool.

I’m sorry things didn’t work out. What caused you to break up?

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Is she on this forum?

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just the bad poverty we have that happens living on my disability check. It’s really hard and it’s been five months so I guess that just wore me down to wanting to break up…am I a bad person?

no, she’s not on this forum…she’s a “normal”.

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You’re not a bad person. Living in poverty is a very stressful situation. Sometimes, loving someone just isn’t enough. You also have to be able to be a team working together through the hard times. If you guys aren’t a team, then maybe she’s just not right for you.

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You can get SNAP benefits if you get disability. I get about $110 a month. Please apply, because they will accept you.

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I’m sorry things turned out like this, jukebox. Maybe you can get back together. Never say never.

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@metime I make too much on disability…they offered me SNAP benefits but it was like $17 a month…thanks for caring though.

@crimby I wish it was simple like that…she won’t even talk to me now.

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i’m sorry @jukebox, I know how hard it is to live in poverty. that’s what kay and I are use to. we lived off my ssi for three years while kay struggled to find work.

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Ohh, I’m so sorry Juke :slight_frown: You’re not a bad person… but be sure it’s the right reason.

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Hey, Juke
I remember you two from way back
you guys might trip and stumble over the ‘paranoid’ thing from time to time
but it’s an accessory; not the true you or her.

Maybe she’ll see your post and get back in touch

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My husband says - “Love is great, but it doesn’t pay the bills.”

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