Question for girls. Would u rather be into a guy who is seemingly perfect on the surface but static. Or someone else who’s been the underdog their whole life and is constantly changing for the better and better and better. While the perfect 
person (no such thing I know) is static…never changing…content as is.
Because months ago I walked into coffee shop on consecutive days after the first day I saw I liked her. But second day other guy there she just ignores me and talks to him.
Now she sees me months later without seeing me in between and she seems very interested in me now…always looking at me wide eyed…maybe because I’m constantly improving?? And getting better and such every day.
Would u rather have a guy who was born seemingly perfect or one who has had to fight to get to a level of…whatever I don’t know…health??? But seems well adjusted.
Damn it @Jonnybegood don’t you know it’s every girls fream to transform “the bad guy” into “the good guy” and take all the credit. Ya are cheating jk lol 
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I have no freaking idea what girls want but the problem is I’m resentful to this girl because she didn’t pay attention the first time…so nothing will ever come of it. But still would like to know I guess.
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Ah, ■■■■, ya did it again. I’m a gal, and I’m still trying to figure it out
I definitely am no longer “extra nice” to girls ever.
What’s that quavo song “be real wit me, cmon trick be real with me!!” Well im real with the girls now. I’ve learned to have No patience with them and how to roll my eyes at them really well and properly. They definitely like this version of me more. It’s all in how fast u react negative to their annoying behaviors…when you’re a sucka, you’re a sucka…but if u know how to not give them any more than an inch of patience…that’s when they gain interest in u. ■■■■■■■ stupid!!! I know!!!
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That’s why it’s called a game, sadly. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if people were genuine…
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Yep yep 
I have the same thoughts. But for me at least, I had to have my “game” fall into place naturally after decades of abuse and stupid games n ■■■■. I’m impatient, compulsive, and all these things. But I’ve finally had enough. Now it just comes naturally…I don’t have any game, I just simultaneously truly hate and love women at the same time… it’s the only way for me.
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You’re learning so much about yourself. That rox. Maybe you’ll meet a gal at the clubhouse 
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Thanks free u the best…
Or maybe @TheBest Is the best …but u cool…
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@TheBest is one cool dude, I concur
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I feel bad know, I’m to nice and I actually respect women. I always thought the women wanting to transform the bad guy into the good guy is something media project on people
Damn… I just woke up and feel like ■■■■
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Nah women are quite fickle looking in mirror. That passive aggressive ■■■■ is too draining as I get older
Yeah I feel good, there are more atractive women who don’t search drama and stupid games as well and they don’t have orgasm when treated bad
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The mystery behind orgasms…hmm…sometimes it’s nice when you’re both baaad 
So little understanding of girls in so many posts…
You have no right to be resentful of a girl because she chose not to talk to you one day. It was probably nothing personal, she just preferred the other guy that day.
Women aren’t on a kick to transform guys either. But we like it when there’s signs that they’re able to change.
And if a guy is overly nice to me, I find it creepy. Like he’s doing it because he wants and expects something.
Women don’t owe men shite.
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Lol I can resent whoever I damn want!!! Ooooo I forgot this isn’t freedom of thought. Just like she didn’t have to show interest in me…I can resent it for it. Really stupid post coming from you @Pikasaur
I can resent ever the freak I want lol…it’s natural emotions to resent someone. Make no sense!!!
I think we should respect each other. Men predominantly pay for drinks dinner, etc. does that mean sex, nope. But women should be respectful to men and the other way around. Very complex issue depending on your belief system
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Yup I have some cool guy friends and they know I’m committed and respect each other
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So much hate… Actually, resenting someone for not showing interest in you is incel behavior.
You’re not entitled to someone showing interest in you just because you like them.
And @anon92220549, I know I’m not attractive. Thanks for pointing that out.
I don’t mind guys being nice. It just seems like a lot of guys think being nice should make women want to be with them, and then they get pissed when the fairytale doesn’t come true.
I’ve been friendly to lot of guys because they were friendly to me, only to find out they want to be more than friends.
That’s deceiptful.
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