To say something like
-youre awesome and I like spending time with you but I’m not looking for a relentionships right now, do you understand? Can we be friends?
And !BAM!, Three month later she tells me she found someone and shes so happy and it’s everything shes looking for, blahh…
Ok, time for a real wake up call. i should talk with my therapist about this, but i value your opinion
Uh oh you’ve been friendzoned.
Again.
And again.
Aaaaand… again.
Oh c’mon not again dude…
i dont complain so much about this.
this is maybe my second post about this
dont be so hard on me for trying to understand
Sorry man. It has happened to me too. Several times actually. I know how you feel.
Quick fix: stop talking to the gal.
Long term solution: work on your self esteem. Try to reach a point where you WANT a girl but you don’t NEED a girl in your life. It’s hard but doable…
thats actually helpfull.
omne of the best advices i received on this matter.
simple and elegant
Dating is a numbers game. Don’t give up!
Dont worry you’ll find someone who likes you eventually, seems you’ve just had some bad luck.
To be blunt, a lot of times girls use this line on someone who while they enjoy personality wise, are not physically attracted to. Sometimes this may be because the guy is going after girls too above him looks wise but sometimes it’s just based on the girl’s own preference.
mthere are so many ladies in the world out there, seriously, you cant swing a dead cat without hitting one
if your into dudes too, well then you really have no reason to fuss
and everyone is awesome in their own way, though plenty of people are just terrible
find a way to bring out other peoples awesomeness, even better, your own
sorry if the idiomatic expression i used triggered anyone, i dont condone the mistreatment of animals
There was this guy I met at the library. I REALLY liked him. He was the biggest geek on the planet. He wasn’t suave at all. Wasn’t even good looking. But I REALLY liked him because he was a geek 
and we had the same interests.
Hope that helps. You just haven’t met the right girl yet
Well I don’t always make the effort to meet new people but when I do it seems as if I strike out. Their is something really wrong with these people and it’s a deal breaker.my hairdresser and my one friend in Cali both said that it happens to them. They said you really gotta screen people out ask a lot of questions and find out if they are right for you. Maybe I got a little of topic here. My point is that you might have to go through a lot of girls. I mean like people go through underwear before you find the right one. Don’t get discouraged like I did and quit trying because it’s gonna take some effort on your behalf.
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