I am very quiet about my diagnosis of Schizophrenia. My immediate family know, but as my husband left me after eighteen years together when he found out my diagnosis I figure it is best to keep it quiet. I have lost a good friend also. I keep to myself now and avoid contact with others.
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I always want to tell people, but I always get scared and pussy out. I usually say I have severe anxiety, aspergers and if I have the courage, psychosis.
If I moved to a new place I think I would tell everyone. Because Iām not interested in having someone as a friend if they donāt support me through my illness. Also Iām completely used to being called a psycho or psychotic bitch so if people talked about me I really would not care whatsoever.
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My family knows about it. And my best friend. But, she has it too. No one else knows. Except my pdoc and my nurse.
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It depends. Iām usually up front. Wouldnāt be if it was work but stuff like the cricket club and such Iām pretty open about it.
Itās not like I broadcast it but it blows small minds when they ask me what do you do for a living and I tell them I donāt do anything because Iām on a disability pension. Sometimes I even get to upgrade peoples information on things. That is rewarding.
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Iām trying to learn to except myself for having it still. But Iām slowly becoming more open about it im trying to keep my family more in touch with how it effects me. But itās hard cause my family betrayed me before and every time Iām honest about something it seems to come crashing down on me. They still donāt understand fully but I like to think that Iāll make some progress with them little by little.
I once made a facebook post about it; the secret was bothering me and I felt I needed to get it off of my chest, not sure why. I got a positive response and no one deleted me because of it. I donāt have a lot of fb friends, mostly just family and good friends on there. I had/have a few coworkers, now former coworkers, from the pharmacy on there, and I kinda wanted them to know. It was my hope that they would finally understand my frequent call-offs and my need to take breaks other than lunch. No one ever said anything to me at work about the post, though at least one coworker gave my post a like.
Other than that, Iāve only told close family and very close friends. Well, Iāve told employers about my sza when it became necessary to do so, like when Iāve had to miss a lot of work, including going into the hospital. My ex-wife is the only person who really knows the details of what I go through when I become full-on psychotic; she saw me through my last psychotic break.
If I tell anyone they would not understand. In my case my sz symptoms are under control. I do however also suffer from anxiety so I will tell people that is my problem. Itās less explaining. Cognitive behavioural therapy helped me to deal with the anxiety but no therapy is 100% effective. But I can live with whatās left of it.
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ā¦ said @Moonwalker in a āhoarseā voiceā¦
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What friends or other? 
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I tell if people if/when it becomes relevant or necessary, and Iām glad to answer any questions people might have about it.
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I donāt tell anyone. I do admit to my PTSD diagnosis though.
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I donāt understand why so many people here are saying theyāll lie about it. Thatās kind of dishonest.
I understand thereās a fear of the stigma, but itās not exactly helping the cause.
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I opened up to some family members, my neighbor as she disclosed that she knew a bipolar beforehand. I tried the clergy route which Iāll never do again. I guess I really donāt need to otherwise as folks can spend a few minutes with me and know Iām off kilter.
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It is like going to jihadi john and tell him that you are an American Christian.
An honestā¦ suicide
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I donāt see it. People Iāve told have been nothing but supportive, and many have been thankful that I chose to be honest and share it with them. Sure, I might have gotten some odd questions, but I answered them as best as I could, and they left it at that.
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Thatās what Christian did for centuries.Telling truth.
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It doesnāt come up very often but when it does Iām forthright about it. People seem to be surprised when I tell them. I think I give sza a good name.
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Only my husband and direct family know. I want to tell my boss and my coworkers, but my husband tells me I shouldnāt, because theyāll have preconceived notions and I might be treated badly.
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It usually comes up when people ask what I do for a living. I say Iām on disability for sz. I usually get sympathy from people. My aunts friend who Iāve known all of my life was very supportive. I was nervous to tell her because she tends to be close minded. Iāve gotten bad reactions a handful of times and that shows those are the people I donāt need in my life. 
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I told one of my friends in school. He has a rare immune condition so he understands taking medications and so on.
Once he wanted to talk about disability stuff after class and I was too nervous to talk about it on account of the girl I like was in the classroom. She lingered for quite a while, and he almost spilled the beans. Anyone but her could know I have this condition, I just donāt want her to treat me differently because of it.
Iām really embarrassed about having sz i realize. I donāt disclose it.
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