What do you mean by guys who are too sweet?
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And what do you mean by guys that are into the dark side
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I think is best to just be yourself. Otherwise its a lot of work to keep up something your not.
If your funny be funny. If your cool be cool. If your nice be nice. If your a potato be the best potato you can be.
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You can try asking women what they want, but you won’t always get a straight answer, for example when I was about 13 I was curious and asked this girl if she preferred length or girth, she hesitated then said girth, but we had a flirtatious relationship.The thing is she hesitated because she didn’t know what I would think of her or judge her.
Usually they’ll say safe things like honest, romantic, funny, etc… and while those may be true, they are not the whole truth, few will tell you anything else because of social stigma and they don’t want to look bad.
You’ll probably have better luck studying female psychology instead. Women need to “feel” something, otherwise it’s a dead end. Guys look at things more “logically”. Use your logic to figure out how to make them feel something for you. Spark their emotions.
I’m not saying guys can’t be emotional and girls can’t be logical but they approach dating and attraction differently in many cases.
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Mae, I know girls integrate their dark side into their conscious life, and I know they are turned off by guys who are too sweet. Don’t give me a hard time, lol.
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Lol too many guys think its the size of there beener that matters 
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You know, @jinx, the bad boy thing wears off after awhile. I’m too old for that ■■■■. I don’t want a pushover, or a doormat, but sweet? Yeah. I see it more as kindness.
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Sorry if I’m giving you a hard time as that is not my intention. I better let you be.
My partner is very sweet and thoughtful. Hes the very definition of a “good guy”. Wouldnt be with anyone else
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Don’t make me feel guilty, Mae, I thought it was funny. I’m not swimming across the big pond anytime soon.
, OK that’s good for you.
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I’m not responding to you anymore.
Sorry,
I feel I might have misunderstood you.
My bad,
That’s okay, I can be a total creep at times. I’m confused about my life and it really seems like there is a division between me and I. It’s all so complicated and I don’t know what is true.
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Maybe have you tried therapy.
My therapist and I talk each week. She is an excellent listener. I really do not hold back, I tell her any and everything, except maybe one or two things lol. Tonight I am up unable to sleep. You are so lucky to be a responsible citizen. I took 10 mg zyprexa two nights ago in a crises to sleep and now I can’t sleep, was manic today. I am prescribed 2.5 mg zyprexa for sleep if I choose.
I listen to good music for like half an hour, when I can’t sleep, not sure it will help you, but just letting you know.
That’s great you have a therapist. I wish I did.
What is it women want?
It varies, if I had to guess.
For me, I like cuties.
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As a boy I Always had crushes on the girls so I can’t accept being gay and I don’t want to change gender so to speak so I’m celibate and it’s Lonely. I became gay when I ran away from home at sixteen and it doesn’t seem the right way to become that way.
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It’s okay to be gay.
I used to think I was gay
But then, I realised I wasn’t
Though sometimes I get attracted to a woman.
But I think it’s just attraction of appreciation as opposed to romantic
You know, idk
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