They got to ask this when they young right?
After a little bit they understand just fine.
She can’t use no good boy that’s why.
Some people got to have that dirty laundry in a relationship right?
And you know why don’t you.
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That is until they turn 30 and just want it clean cause they’ve already been borked by all the different breeds they thought might be interesting and just want to cash out with someone level…
No no no… the woman is innocent and it’s just misunderstood… the man is wrong for wanting one all to himself… that’s a sacrifice inherently on the woman’s part to make something out of someone who is bound to not understand her and leave her disappointed… not just with him but her herself for wasting so much time…
■■■■ it all anyways…
At the end of all dis-engendered thoughts we’re supposed to come out the same… with some level of respect for the variance…
ain’t no one wants to be a team because the world is too large and we all have those traits that would allow us to glide this way and that…
all that said there are good women out there… good permanently insecure women who can’t handle being alone and would rather just trust someone close to them to not try and sleep with someone else…
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or person doesn’t like men, in general. not everyone likes men, and that everyone is sometimes sullied by society.
Imagine that youthful struggle shared between both boys and girls… going for what they like looking at and only winding up confused because that person is nothing like what they actually get along with… and those they actually get along with are disinterested because they don’t have that different appeal in their attractiveness…
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The women I like most want almost nothing in the long run… which disheartens me as I have a strong monogamous leaning…
They just like external validation and information exchange… nothing situation-ally obligatory…
I’d say **** those types as they’re quick to forget and just ignore… but they’re the ones I enjoy being around the most…
I think I understood portion of the comments given by all of you here.
It is embarrassing to be misunderstood as gay sometimes, but the reason I like men in general (I am a middle-aged man) is because I think man and woman are often misinterpreted as sexual partner, or at least, for not having a pure friendship.
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nah I feel you @Plumber
I’m impressed by men for the reasons anyone would appreciate men. As one I know the different internal struggles and I see them all carry themselves so well without intimidation. It’s not their form, even though that is the body of the apex primate, but the mental composition of a man and how he has wrestled away all the insecurities that keep brimming up in other folk.
All the shortcuts and what is solid in the face of it all. One can better the self if he takes to looking at men as influences, both positive and negative influences, over what a man should be. Then the individual is free at its own discretion and inborn trait set to be the one it wants it to be. And not just in regards to what attracts a woman/women… but resonates best in social hierarchy one finds for itself in life or even just the greater nature of humanity itself…
How much power can one settle for? How much influence? How is that power sourced? What pillars does the man stand on? Are they made of salt, stone, or wood? Are they centered around controlling others? Do they have need of others? Beyond all that do they have respect for others?
Given the context that was all phrased to be about the analysis of a man… but it can be dissociated as a means of judging others… the no-no word aside… it’s all meant to be done internally and only to promote individual growth in regards to knowing the divergence within our species and how those divergences can be applied to the self to create more resound individuals… god pray somewhere along the way they learn to just be good in themselves for it and not need others to support their character…
It’s tormenting to take someone prone to jealousy and just rub it in as you express the bottled up self that no one even wants to see… just because they were kind enough or inspired to give you an ear…
It’s the wrestling with the nature of friendship. I do not believe I should limit my own growth at all for the sake of other people’s egos… however that leaves me out in the woods alone trouncing on grounds I can’t even know if they are truly unknown… there is no gentle way to prod out of the others any confirmation nor any kind way to present that I’ve found something out there that temporarily makes them seem nonsensical and stubborn and stupid until they demonstrate that they have some inkling to what it was that they uncovered on their own lonely travels…
It’s a quote from a friend… a highly insightful girl… I want to share it now:
"Change takes work; grueling, tedious, thankless, lonely work. And there is no one there to tell you if you’re right or going in the right direction. " - Z
Keep on keeping on @plumber… don’t worry about the public opinion… it sways with the wind and there are always more folk out there who have never heard of you that you can be your current running instance and see how they feel of it.
You might also learn to detect and sense that appeal for you in others… that their minds will resonate with yours…
When you do… I advise you keep a light weight upon expressing your need to be close to them. Allow yourself to be a mystery… it’s a good appeal. Your intellect alone will buy you the intrigue of many… so long as you don’t go flaunting it and respect the common talk of whatever crowd it is…
Those are the theories I’m incorporating into my running instance… both to learn more thoroughly how to be independent while retaining the sense of being well accompanied in this unfolding world.
I might have had to much philosophy in morning today.
All about the bad boy think it’s all a alpha male thing.
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I think most women like men that are physically strong or try to dominate other people. It all goes back to the way that women liked men way back to austrolopithicus afriencis(spelling has to be off so I spelled it phonetically). Both men and women try to pretend they are more evolved than that but they aren’t really.
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even if so, that’s a dangerous character for a man to constantly exercise. in fact, that mindset is easily taken advantage of. a lot of men are convicted and destroyed, even financially, by constantly exercising that mindset.
it’s been said that non-males have low drives. just leave it at that. done.
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What do you mean by low-drives? 
couldn’t find the puzzled look.
Also I bet you the average person in jail has way more success with the opposite sex than someone with a degree. Just a hunch though.
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even if so, jailtime is not worth “having more success” with the opposite.
lol lol lol lol lol lol
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I kind-of got offtopic there…
so this is my last post in this thread.
they say that non-males have a lower drive than men.
also, there are some people who just don’t have an interest in men at all. and society belittles and ridicules them, just because of their sexuality.
so if someone doesn’t like you, just try to be their friend and don’t whine. and if you can’t be their friend, then suck it up and go home. it’s not our fault that we are born with a stronger libido and urge.
it’s a freaking curse, but what can we do?
Rant End. if I ever complain about being single, which I’m not allowed to do here, then quote this rant here to slap me out of the desert mirage.
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I dont like bad boys…I like 'em sick and twisted. Think about Jack Torrance in The Shining…something like that.
But of course I wouldn’t marry such a guy.
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Women are attracted to men they believe can protect them, now that translates to men with higher risk lifestyles. It’s evolution. Like how men are are attracted to younger, fertile women. It’s not a conscience decision, it’s our makeup.
That being said, I married an educated, corporate guy. One that would likely lose in a fight. Sexy.
I cant conquer the opposite gender, I am filled with hatred forever
I’m monogamous too,that’s what I want.
My bf rides motorbikeand someone asked if he up to mischief so I asked him via text if he does crime and he said no.
Most people do though in some way or format in different names etc n bodies of who they are.
Those reckless guys give you almost the opposite of protection unless you want to live in a place with a lot of gang activity or something. They should be going for people that are strong and responsible. Then again scam artists have a lot of power in this world.