What’s your intelligence like when it comes to daily practical tasks? It’s the area I have by far the greatest difficulty. It’s taken many years for it to be recognised as a genuine difficulty rather than as ‘proof’ of a ‘character weakness’.
Brushing my teeth has been an uphill battle since coming down with sz. I can’t explain why, but it definitely has got nothing to do with being intelligent, because you need exactly one neuron to know how to brush your teeth.
Shopping for groceries - one may argue that it takes some ability to be able to choose which products have the best value (ie, nutritional score divided by price or some similar index). In practice, I have a hard time getting dressed and leaving the house. But once I’m inside the shop, I easily find my way around. I know beforehand what I want to buy, and if a certain brand is out of stock, I look for the closest replacement. I am not an impulse buyer. Colors and glitters and dubious discounts (to prices that had probably been inflated just a short while before, or to merchandise about to expire) never sweep me off my feet. Is this intelligence? I don’t really know, but it doesn’t feel like it.
Paying the bills. There are more than one way to pay the bills nowadays. I still go to the company’s office, take a tracking number and talk to a clerk behind a desk. I pay either in cash or with a credit card. I take the receipt and that’s it.
Laundry and cleaning. I do the bare minimum. I’d perhaps feel better if I did more, but hey, do negative symptoms ring a bell ?
Talking to strangers. Yes, this requires interpersonal skills. I don’t talk much anyway, I have poor persuading skills. I could never become an influencer. I actually fear making new acquaintances, but I push through when needed. Luckily, it is not often needed.
Bottom line, I am probably dysfunctional on many levels. Does it disturb my sleep ? Not really
I think practical wisdom is the best kind. I don’t like to get too much into over theorizing things. I’m not exactly sure what you mean by practical intelligence but I think I have a good head on my shoulders.
I don’t have street smarts but I can do stuff around the apartment, and fix certain things and I’m able to assemble most things if the instructions come with it. It means I won’t be on the street selling phony crack or getting over on people, but I can cook and clean well enough to live on my own and if I need to put together a set of shelves or figure out how my new radio/alarm clock works, I’m going to do it successfully.
I kinda vary from day to day on my ability to do things, so I kind of have to “read the room” every morning when I wake up and go with the flow of the day and whatever my brain is up to at the moment.
It’s gotten better over the years, I won’t get into details, but I still have moments of forgetfulness or becoming overwhelmed by certain tasks with no explanation, but I am learning to accept my limitations and focus on what’s best for me at the moment.
Be kind to yourself, don’t give up and just do the best you can every day.