People who can't take no

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I explained i am seeing a dr and not feeling well… so she said come cinema… i said i cant as won’t be able to concentrate … so she pushed some more and asked what will happen if i did go… i said i’d find it torture as i wouldn’t be able to move and can’t concentrate… she didn’t like it i think…

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i think i was rude but the woman can’t take no for an answer.

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ugh yeah now i think it was rude.

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Have you lost a freindship now

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i think i have… but she was annoying… i probably should join meetups and try find new friends… friends my age… not my mothers age…

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Yes it’s hard to know where to go to meet people the right age like minded people
Tell her you will go cinema with her another time

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i did and even tried to explain i dont’ feel well and even finding it hard at work to concentrate… to insist on cinema even then? ermmm it was something SHE wanted to do… not something i wanted… so she takes me cos she wants someone to come home with at night so she don’t feel lonely. shes a close neighbour

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It was rude of them to push the issue. You did nothing wrong

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Yes I have a friend in another city and she used to visit for weekend and want to go clubbing and it was hell when I went I stil don’t know to this day whether she ever figured it out that I am schizophrenic

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She sounds very pushy and rude. If you don’t feel like going somewhere, that should be the end of it. To insist or try to push you is not very friendly.

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she ended the convo saying i was only trying to motivate you and seemed upset i think.

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But what i don’t get is… the woman goes on 300 holidays a year … she hates being at home… whereas i am pretty content being at home… i don’t like going places everyday… she is late 50s … i envy her energy… lol i cant do that.

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I still don’t think you did anything wrong. Don’t worry about it.

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how about this group?

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id love to but bit far… :slight_smile: not making excuses … i just live in england.lol

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ok, i thought you were near me lol

there may be one for your area and you just need to look :slight_smile:

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