Is it just me or do people seem to really hate some people. It’s like they are disgusted with my existence…
Really hurts my feelings…I try to be nice to people
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It is all in your head. You seem like a good guy. 
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Its not for us to delve into other peoples minds unless invited.
But i feel similar sometimes. It hurts when someone seems to just randonly not like me. Im nice to everyone. I make an effort to be kind. I guess everyones got thier own hidden stuff going on that can impact it.
Best to just not let it get us down.
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Me too !
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I totally relate. I am often treated very badly.
I will say however that I’ve been treated really well at my new job. It’s been so nice.
People look for easy victims, people who are nice to others. It’s not right, but it’s what happens.
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I’m not initially treated poorly, but for whatever reason, people drop me after getting to know me. I’d almost rather be judged before they get to know me so I can at least tell myself that they don’t know what they are missing out on by being my friend. Instead, people get to be my friend, and then they leave. I don’t get it. I’m positive, have a good sense of humor, an very loyal… I have good qualities, y’know? Why aren’t I worthy to be someone’s friend?
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I’m sorry. People can be so cruel even so far into a friendship. I believe that you are worthy to be someones friend, it can be hard to explain why it didn’t work because there could be so many reasons.
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Yes, good thread,often the same here, AKendrik.
When I talk with such guys they act like " no, it’s all in your head"
It’s real when they are unfriendly to you and friendly to next guys they met, so they having not only a bad day.
Try to be friendly, Be friendly, I know it’s hard, the only way to go in my opinion.
Talking about is good too.
That’s the reason I’m here
and living of my own.
Edit : there is some more, I can’t grab it at the moment
Perhaps it’s we are looking so good and being friendly in all cases
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I don’t do well in those first few minutes of interacting F2F with another person. Those being the minutes when many will judge you as a person they like or dislike. There could be many reasons why I don’t come across well- facial expressions,sound of voice,physicality,- to name just a very few possible reasons. I think for many people I’m regarded as too weird to be worth getting to know further.
Perversely, due to the effects of bullying related trauma, I will tend to self sabotage things when people online ramp up their interest in me. It could be a benign,genuine, interest, but my mind thinks ‘the more they know the more they’re likely to reject me’. I do comparatively better online than IRL, but that’s more a 20% worth knowing increased to 35% than a 20% ramped up to 65%.
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That’s sucks too man … seems like we have opposite experiences with the timing of the rejection but it still hurts no matter what. I think Im gonna have to be less sensitive from now on … I am weird and people don’t always like it.
Also …maybe it’s the people your befriending and not you. If your nice and they dump you after getting to know u maybe it’s not all you bro …
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Welcome to the forum @James99 
I haven’t seen you around before.
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I would say most people don’t like me. And if they like me at first, they won’t for long. That’s just been my experience with people.
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I wonder if anyone really liked me in my whole life.
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It’s hard to say, @AKendrick . We don’t see your daily interactions with the people you live around.
Some people are just up to no good, some people have deviant minds, some people are just shy.
I can say that having sz sort of adds a layer of metaphysical funk that impacts our perceptions of how people view us.
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Being liked has survival value. I wish people liked me better than they seem to do. Darn!
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some people really care about 9/11 tragedy and they use that for a reason
I’m lost …,
Enough Christmas
You’re a good dude 
I can relate, some people are disgusted by me, others think I’m ok IRL. People used to like me more before, I’m treated more badly these days, why I’m most comfortable alone or with my family
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Thanks, man. I try not to be horrible…all the time lol
You also seem like a cool guy … 
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