I know y’all don’t know me…
But man, I feel sooo unlikeable.
I don’t know what’s wrong…
I must give off bad vibes or something, but most people really don’t seem to like me.
Do you guys feel like this about yourselves?
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Yeah, I feel like that, but I understand why people don’t like me.
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I feel disliked too, but I blame it on my bad social skills.
And I’m a bit of an oddball… people are afraid of what they don’t understand, and sometimes dislike is how they handle it I think
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I have good friends but i always feel that people are just faking liking me to be nice. I secretly think my friends hate me and think I’m a burden. My therapist says this is an incorrect cognition but no matter what i do i can’t stop thinking/feeling it. So I’m always trying to please people thinking it’ll make them like me for real when they already do! It’s exhausting.
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Yes. I’m often disliked. It’s hard and it hurts. I tend to befriend the downtrodden and they feel that way too
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I feel people like me. I like myself. Things keep working out. I like people also.
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I don’t think people like me either. I’m socially awkward.
It’s probably just in all of our heads though. We tend to overthink things like this.
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I feel this way too, I think it’s because of my negativity. I am generally very anxious and this seeps into my thoughts as a depressive person to others
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If I find out someone doesn’t like me I like to be extra obnoxious around them so I can annoy them even more. LOL.
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I don’t think people like me either. It bothers me a lot but I’m trying not to because I know I’m a good person I just maybe am awkward or something?
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you are a good person and I think you are lovely person.
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I feel like everyone hates me. And if they like me at first, when they first meet me, with time, they always grow to hate me. I love myself though. I think I’m a great person and I don’t understand people. This is largely why I isolate so much.
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It’s other people that are the problem not yourself.
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Exact same thing with me @anon59642972
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Most of my life people didn’t like me and I don’t know why. There’s some people who have blocked me and ghosted me and won’t talk to me anymore either.
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Some of this is the illness. I felt like a really bad person on Caplyta, but I felt bad anyway.
I feel better about myself on Cobenfy. I don’t seem to have the self hate talk as bad on it.
Also, it helps to be around positive people.
I met someone on New Year’s Eve who is my new friend. I talked to her and she seemed to get and validate what I was thinking. I told her about some things that had been weighing on my mind. They weren’t too deep to talk to about to someone I just met. She is a good friend of a friend of mine. We were also at a small, intimate birthday party. So, it might’ve been that she was open to having that conversation with me.
It may be I explained myself in a different manner on Cobenfy and/or was ready to hear good feedback about myself on this new medication.
IDK. All I’m trying to say is, the illness makes it hard. Then, it’s hard to connect with people as an adult for Neurotypicals, let alone everyone else.
Then, we’re all on our phones and not interacting with each other.
It’s not just you.
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The less you care the happier you will be 
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I’m not a very loved or valued person either.
I know I am good vibes but someone may have lied and incited hate on me and set me up to be alone and be hated .
People disrespect me and walk all over me with aggressive energy and how do i defend myself me alone against neighbourhoods ….
Turning other cheek year after year doesn’t help or make them stop.
Maybe a few people have love for me but we only message few times year .
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Some people will like you and some won’t. I added 15 friends on Facebook and after 1 week only 4 have accepted. Still 4 new connections. It’s best to focus on the positive.
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I don’t feel entirely unlikeable but I do find people I really have stuff in common and get on with well hard to come by. I feel like most people I meet are either really boring, we don’t have enough common ground or we just communicate very differently.