I didn’t put any frosting, I was thinking chocolate but got lazy 
Thanks everyone 
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Yayyyy congratulations my beautiful friend. Wish you a great year ahead, you have a lot of adventures ahead. You’ve come a long way. You did it!!!
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Thaaanks honeybunny
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Cograts. I’m very impressed you are taking everything seriously being that you have one year clean AND were diagnosed one year ago. I personally feel like getting one year is a huge acomplishment but I feel like people don’t get as much credit as they should for it. Anyways happy to ses that people that are using this forum And doing well.
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Thank you, that means a lot. For me it’s a huge accomplishment, getting sober and out of denial. I sobered up on my own, without any help whatsoever, it was actually a huge thing, took a lot of strenght that I didn’t know I had.
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I haven’t drank or smoked anything since Sept 27th
This motivates me
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Yeah! Really, you can do this. It’s easy actually
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Congratulations, and I don’t like to get serious on you but how did you get so wise? Was it just sobriety that makes you so smart? 
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Congrats!!! I was just like you used all kinds of drugs everyday for years. I’m 6 months drug free and you are inspiring me to go further!!!
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Well done Minnii and good luck 
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Aw, thanks. I don’t know, probably sobriety helps yeah.
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You can do this! The first months are the hardest, so you already went through that. I still get calls ocasionally to go to parties but I always say no, that’s hard too.
That’s the big thing. “Nothing changes if nothing changes,” as the saying goes. I’ve still got old friends trying to re-connect with me on Facebook over two decades later. I discreetly check to see if they’ve cleaned up and only one has so far. The rest belong to my old life and are blocked from contacting me a second time.
My partying days are over (unless hired to DJ).
Pixel.
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Yeah my “friends” are all party people. Had to cut ties with lots of them… I went to only one concert this year to dance a little, but it was a friends band and the people I went with all knew that I didn’t drink or do drugs so they helped out and stayed mostly sober, was nice for a change.
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Here’s the thing that sucks about Facebook: The people you left behind will find you again, and sometimes in the most embarrassing ways. Someone I used to party with discovered that I lived nearby and publicly inquired if I was “still dealing weed?” Just what you want parents of kids you coach to see on your timeline!
I was like, “I grew up over 20 years ago butthead, suggest you do the same.” That was followed by a massive Googling and pre-emptive blocking spree of damn near everyone I could remember from my twenties. Super embarrassing. Gawd.
Pixel.
That is amazing. Those first six months are like having to climb Everest 2x/day. Give yourself massive props. It may not feel like it, but you’re more than halfway to winning the battle now!
Pixel.
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Damn, that’s harsh. You did the right thing…
On my facebook timeline I get swamped with “Drugs are good for you” posts, I block them all, and I’m also not affraid of “defriending” people. lol I hate facebook actually, but keeps me in touch with some true friends and there’s also a school group that I need there so I won’t quit it yet…
I got a call from a friend on new years eve, she was high on acid and wanted me to go pick her up I just said “Look, I’m in front of a fireplace reading a good book I really don’t want the hassle” Then sent her a picture of the fireplace. lol… Meh, ■■■■ 'em
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You’re my idol. How you did it?
Well I just stayed home, at first had a lot of cravings for confort food but that passed when I started getting fatter lol It’s still hard but it’s getting easier. I thought it would be a lot harder actually. The not driking is the hardest, because is so socially accepted, and people look at you funny when you say you don’t drink, the rest just takes a lot of strenght to know that you just can’t.
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Did you have any…physical withdrawals?