Not talking to my sister and brother-in-law

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Two days ago I got a nasty letter from my brother-in-law about my new friend, that I would be destitute if I got involved with him, and my brother-in-law wasn’t going to help me.

Today, I got a letter that my sister who has heart problems was admitted to the hospital for a day. He didn’t even text me that she was ill. He also said he wasn’t going to show her my letter about my new friend I wrote them as it would stress her out.

My sister already told me not to call or text her anymore because of my new friend, and to write her a letter if I needed to communicate with her.

At this point in time, I’m going to stop communicating with the both of them. I’m still waiting to see how my friendship is going to work out, and I have a life too. They live 1020 miles away, while my new friend is supposed to be relocating here to live and will be someone to do things with.

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Why are they so against your new friend? Do they know him?

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No they have never met him. They object to the fact we met over the internet. We only have known each other since February. My sister and her husband think he’s going to scam me in some way.

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Did you speak text before this? Or was the relationship previously strained.

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Yes it used to be I would either text or call her just about every day until she asked me to stop.

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Sounds you are doing well otherwise and happy with your BF.
Yeah I would just focus on your happiness.

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Thanks @Kxev. I just texted my case manager tonight not to call her about me because of her heart problem now.

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:+1: hope this will be temporary.

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Hopefully one day you all can bury the hatchett and be friends.

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