man, we had that break up the day after Christmas and then now after nursing my girlfriend back to health out of a four day sickness she said she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore so she’s moving out. just like that. It’s new year’s eve for crying out loud. oh well. I guess it was supposed to happen.
Have you two talked about it ?
Endings are hard even if they actually mean that the space is open for something new to start…
Don’t be sad! We love you here 
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Things happen, but the life goes on, a part of the reason why I do not want to have a girlfriend is that the life is much simpler and more peaceful without complex relations, drama and so on. Well at least she spoke to you before leaving you, my former spouse gave a kiss on my cheek in the morning and later left a voicemail message that she was not going to come back. But the life goes on, Happy New Year 2016. 
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well, if she is over it I’m over it. I will sorely miss her and the dogs a lot longer than she realizes or doesn’t care about.? I am not going to jump into another relationship as a matter of fact I am just going to start painting and playing music more. this is day 2 of stopping smoking and I am resolute that I can’t afford them so I’m really happy that at least I will be o k after she leaves. by the way, I told her she can stay and save up her checks until she can afford to leave. she said that was nice of me. I don’t know what to think of that?
You’re too nice.
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I’m sorry @jukebox, this sucks. But if its over its over, its better to be over than one of you or both of you being unhappy.
It was nice of you to let her stay.
I need some time with the dogs anyways before she moves out so at least this way I will see the dogs for a longer time than if she were just immediately leaving. It’s the start of a new year tomorrow. I wonder what it will be like after she leaves. some time around february I guess?
Sometimes people do these things because they have a hidden agenda but I don’t really know either of you so I couldn’t say one way or the other. If someone doesn’t want to be with someone else there’s probably nothing that can really be done about it. Don’t do like me where my self esteem is so bad I can’t get myself to give myself time to recover because I keep thinking my marriage failing no matter what I could’ve done is nothing. Take time to rest from it especially if you were together a long time.
I certainly wouldn’t enjoy living a month or more with a woman who decided she didn’t want to be with me anymore.
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Good luck with living together after our breakup. I don’t think I could be that nice. When I got broken up with, all I wanted to do was smash their car in with a baseball bat. But it works for some people. My aunt and uncle lived together for a few years after their divorce to save money. They ended up being really good friends and their significant others all got along really well.
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I don’t really know how it’s going to pan out within a month. I mean, now she’s in charge of her debit card and before hand in our relationship I always went with her in her car and handed her card to her only when she was going to make a cash withdrawal, other times she would give her card back to me because she didn’t trust herself not to gamble with any big money that might be on the card. So either this friday she will go blow her money or she will save it. If she blows her money I am going to have to let her know that she has to move out in two weeks. I need time with the dogs before I can handle losing them still. I think.