No one to go out with

Hi Rie,
I always ask the person if I don’t know how to pronounce a name.
For me, it wasn’t courage that I was lacking in making friends. I always thought that i did not have close friendships because i was a bad friend to begin with. it wasn’t until i got sick that i really took a hard look at myself and realized all the ways I had mismanaged my relationships.

Have you been to the theater recently? I just saw the Martian, really liked the story and thought the actors were great in it. I was a big fan of Mission to Mars (especially the soundtrack!) so I couldn’t wait to see it.

My name is pronounced Ree-eh.
For me it’s a little courage, confidence, and mostly the compatibility with the person to be able to become friends with him/her.
I haven’t been to theater lately, the last time I went to see a movie was last Feburary. I was unwell through Spring and Late Summer. I watched “Baymax”.I think it’s called “Big Hero 6” over there in the US? I want to see the Snoopy movie that’ll start in December I want to go with my friend but I don’t know if she comes.
Never seen Mission to Mars. Is it a series or something?

thanks.
big hero is an anime? i think I’ve heard of it. mission to mars came out awhile ago on the big screen. about astronauts and alien life form.
oh, my snoopy character:
http://www.peanutizeme.com/#1fc26e :smile:

Yes, Big Hero 6 is from an American comic and the movie is in CG.
Oh, lol that’s cute :smiley:

it’s way past my usual bedtime, had lots of energy after my work shift last night.
it was so nice talking to you, i haven’t (never, actually) had this type of dialogue on this site before. i hope i eased your mind about the whole friendship thing, just keep at it, it’ll get better. i turn 38 on dec 15.

Thanks. Good night :first_quarter_moon_with_face:

It is impossible to find a person that perfectly matches you. When people say they found a soult mate, that is mostly result of adjusting and putting a partner’s good side in front of the less likeable one.
Same with the friendship.
If you want someone with whom you can occasionally hang out for the sake of fun and socializing, why complicate things?
But for anything deeper, I guess, that inferiority complex will always stand on your way…
Someone told me that life is a trade-off…there is no perfect deal…and its kind of liberating when you think that way. Takes away an irrational responsibility to satisfy everyone and achieve everything.

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