My 40 something sister has been kept ignoring me for the past 8 years. I have no idea why. The last time I met her 8 years ago I noticed something was wrong with her because she said too little and looked depressed. Since then on, her complete silence started.
My mother meets her at times and she told me that except my sis doesn’t talk anything about me, she’s normal.
She was a very warm sister who cares for me and used to tell me everything that was on her mind. We were always together, go any where together.
She sends my mother a new year card every year, and there’s always my name as well on the card.
I have no idea what she feels because she doesn’t express anything.
I think she’s changed,people change.She should least have replied your text.Thats why I would like to have a wife.So even if my brother left me and married I would still have someone to connect with
Just that I don’t understand people who don’t express themselves. It is ok if she doesn’t like me or want to contact me anymore. But I think keeping in silence is a childish way to express oneself.
I think you should write her a letter telling her you miss her and don’t understand the silence. Give it to her through your mom. Specifically but kindly ask for a reply in the letter. Maybe she’ll finally tell you what’s going on.
That is a good idea but I won’t put it into action. I’m kind of tired of this. If she wants to keep in silence, that’s fine, I respect her choice. She’s an adult and not a dependent child anymore. She also has husband to rely on. I guess I have no reason to worry too much about her.
When someone sends such complicated messages, I kind of lose my motivation to understand them.