Never making progress

I really want to leave my parents place, but I fear I will be incapable of working fluently. Not making enough money and etc.

Main reason is still my brother. Honestly, as time goes I realise that he’s veeery awful! First, because he offers me drugs, even while knowing how drug affects me. Second, he is using hard drugs. He is destroying his own life. Third, he brings tons of conflicts to our home. Also, I feel unsafe around him. And last, but not least - he is super duper manipulative and hysterical and… many other bad things I could mention about him.

It’s sad to tell those things about my brother. I would like that he would be different - not so egoistic and not so addicted to drugs.

So, getting back to previous point… I honestly believe this person is destroying my family life. He soon will go to Germany, but from what I’ve know about him - he will come back after several months. He just cannot be independent.

Honestly, all people started understanding how horrible he is as a person. Just… sadly, my mom is the last person left. I doubt she’ll ever understand that he is truly an ass****

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Do you have assistance because of your Illness? If so…maybe you could work part time?

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Maybe. I will try to find a job which will be suitable with my studies… and yeah probably it will be a part-time job

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You can do it coffee. Your 24 and have alot of options… just plan and take your best shot when your ready. You got this…frfr

Me on the other hand … I’m quite problematic like your bro

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Thanks for that!! I really need support now:))

I doubt you’re problematic as my bro

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so sorry…I have a bad brother too…and he is very hard on me…I understand.

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I have a toxic brother
I’m learning to basically ignore him unless he calls me
Then I will talk to him but I say very little

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Hey I know your brother is a probably a truly good person, like when he’s off drugs… But it’s really unsafe to hang out with people who do hard drugs. What if you try ketamine or something even once you could be hooked for life. Im not telling you what to do just think you should keep yourself safe and at a distance

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