My brother is destroying my life

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So. From the beginning … He was suggesting me tons of drugs, and weed is very light compared to them. I slipped and and smoked weed. I told that before here.
He gave me weed - we smoked it several times and now he said everything to my parents, but lied that he never suggested me weed. He said I was the one who was asking for it.
Also, he said to my mother I am worse than any street prostitute. Cool.
He said I am literally fu**** every person he knows. I swear, it’s very far from truth.
Honestly, I just want to cry.
I hate my mom believes him even in a very small bit, but still believes in him
I am done with this sh**. It’s first time in my life when I am cutting all the bondings with my brother

Also, never smoking weed again. It truly had some consequences on my motivation and on my symptoms.

I am really angry, sad and frustrated

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Does anyone has any idea why he wants to destroy my life and relationship with my parents??

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Some people just have bad intentions.

Not everyone is good.

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It’s still hard to understand for me that he truly has bad intentions. You know, he is my brother. It shouldn’t be that way…

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Well. You have to minimize your time with toxic people.

Nothing good will come from it.

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You need to be away from him. Can you move out?

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At the moment, honestly, not really. @shutterbug

The good thing is in few weeks he probably will go to work in Germany again. And he will spend here at least few months.

@Jonathan2 that’s why I am finally done with him. It took many years but now I have realised that he wishes me the worst things in life.

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Also I blocked him on phone for 100%. That he couldn’t manipulate me on messages.

I mean both facebook/messenger and phone.

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If he is home I suggest going for a walk with a book or a laptop. Minimize contact.

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Honestly I will do that as much as possible.

The less we will communicate, the less he will manipulate @shutterbug

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I feel badly for you. You are a good person in a bad situation. You deserve better.

:pray:

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Hugs. :pray: those words mean a lot to me. @shutterbug

I just want for people in real life to understand, that I am not as bad as my brother tries to prove. It’s sad that my whole family is tired from his bullying, drug addiction and sleepless nights.

He’s one of the biggest as**** I know.

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People on drugs say a lot of things they don’t mean. Maybe he’s trying to manipulate you for more drugs or is just feeling ■■■■ after a hangover and taking it out on you. I wouldn’t take it too seriously what he says in this state.

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Yea… it’s probably the drugs. I had a good friend in a roommate I had before moving alone. He was a really good friend until he got high. It was night and day how he treated /saw me. Drugs screw you up… Just try to avoid him and don’t forget the drugs are effecting who he is…

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What country are you in?

Also maybe your brother is delusional. Does he have any sz symptoms?

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I think he wants to harm me, and he try to make me use more drugs. At least I think that way… It’s so so sad @POET

@signless I know :smiling_face_with_tear::smiling_face_with_tear:drugs changed him…as a teenager he was a sweet boy!

@eternalaether oh nooo, he is really not delusional. He just tries to harm me for many years.
I am from Lithuania

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I wish the best for your family and your relationship with your brother. This is very strange sounding also. I hope this doesn’t disturb you or make things worse. But would it have something to do with inheritance or something? Please disregard if this disturbs you.

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May I text you back in PM? @Dude1

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Yes, please always feel free to PM me.

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I’m sorry to hear that. Drugs can really change a person. I’m glad to hear he is going away soon. Maybe you can use that time to repair the relationship with your parents. Build trust.

Additionally, it’s really great that you’re resolute on not trying drugs again. It’s so so dangerous, especially for those of us with SZ.

You mentioned that your parents believe him a little bit. What makes you think that?

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