My friend is somewhat of a narcissist well he didn’t show these traits at first but now they show and he’s clearly taking advantage of me and it’s ■■■■■■■ ■■■■■■■■. Well I’ve had enough now. It’s not like I’m gonna end our friendship but I have something that he wants. Really badly. So I have leverage on him. It gave me enough balls to say “I’m not giving it to you unless you STOP”. Sad it has to come this way. I wish people were just even on their ■■■■ and fair but sadly it almost never works that way. My wife will be the same way as me. I haven’t met her yet, but that’s what brings two people together. Extraordinary unique similarities and my wife and I will be brought together by our extraordinary kindness and fairness we both possess. Because that will be my soulmate when I meet a girl who is alike to me in these ways. I know she’s out there she’s just not common. Just like anyone’s “soulmate”. If u somewhat believe in such a thing.
does he have any sign of mental illness?
it’s not cool to take advantage of a friendship
and I think you’ll have to take the chance of him getting mad.
He’s schizoaffective and he’s a addict/alcoholic
He takes clozaril and abilify. He’s sick at times I know that but it’s no excuse for being a fn ■■■■■■■.
There’s such like double standard in the relationship and he twists everything you say/do to his advantage. I feel like he thinks because he works AND gets disability. While I only get disability, he’s entitled to more privledges. But there’s a double standard in this regard too. He gets way more money than me and also spends a shitload of more money on…himself. He expects me to share all my money with him since I get ssdi only or something and don’t work. And he’s the biggest fn hypocrite ever. He just acts like a total pos. He tells me to scam people. He’s like “WHY DONT YOU LIE SO YOU CAN STEAL THEIR MONEY”. And I’m like “I don’t do that…cuz I’m not a fn ■■■■■■■”. And then he has this obnoxious laugh whenever I question him on his morality or something and god idk I’m not a very difficult person to deal with. So idk why he has to be so difficult to me back.
This person doesn’t sound like a very good friend. I would definitely set up some boundaries with him. He sounds like a total user. Being sza is no excuse.
He apologized and said he didn’t realize he was taking advantage of me but he “understands” and will make it up to me. Not sure to believe him I’ll be cautious but give him the benefit.
U r well because u r on finding lady friend!
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