Do others take advantage of you?

It seems like everywhere I go, other people seem to take advantage of me.
Its definitely because of my mental illness and because I’m too passive.
I really need to stop letting others walk all over me.

My new case manager cancelled on me.
I was relying on her for a ride.

I’m tired of this crap.

Do others take advantage of you?
Just wondering.

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“Do others take advantage of you?”

almost everyone.
tis why I’m grateful that I only know family.

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People can try, but I don’t let them. I’m fairly assertive.

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Yeah, but they usually only get one chance.

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Sometimes but I’ve learned to put my foot down. Also people take advantage of other people regardless of mentally ill or not. Maybe don’t take it too personal. I know I’m very sensetive about being mentally ill.

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your case manager gives you rides!

depends how much you pay them

Yes, she is supposed to.
Why, don’t all Case managers do this?

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I don’t pay her anything.
It’s through a Charity

You’re kidding?
Mine never did anything but look across the desk at me for 15 minutes.
She dropped me when I asked what it was she was managing. That was my first, and last case manager.

Yeah I’m not impressed.

I only let the right people take advantage

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i am suppose to see a case manager through my current clinic but they are swamped , i am too nice to people. my in laws take advantage of me for my money and my parents take advantage of me by emotionally draining me.

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Since becoming ill? I can’t recall. But just through out life, yes.

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Oh my gosh yes! My family takes advantage of me. I recently came into some money and I couldn’t have it and didn’t need it,so I gave it away. I gave away $4500! My neighbors found out I had it and kept trying to break in to steal it. But I rarely leave the house and have 2 little alarm dogs that would go crazy everytime they jiggled the front door to check if it was locked. They never broke in. I warned them if they ever broke in they’d get a shotgun blast to the chest.

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Yes. Constantly.

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Sometimes people take advantage. I sometimes lose the ability to kind of control how I respond to others. I just listen and do what people tell me. It is usually my mom though. I think it is part of negative symptoms and executive functioning loss.

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I have a hard time taking care of myself around certain people.

I have a hard time with others partly because of the initial stress, that is, I was raised in an alcoholic home.

Also, my schizophrenia limits me in my ability to understand what others mean when they say something.

J.

@sirBoring

@Wave

@zinc

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I scare some people but damn teenagers never miss an opportunity to bug me. A lot of them are cool but a lot of them are also total assholes who take advantage of nice people. Basically I feel a lot of people in public use me but a lot of them are not using me and they are actually friendly people.

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I have been preyed on immensely in my life. We live in a world where many prey on the weak. I wish it wasn’t like that, but it is. People sniff for weakness and an opening to strike. I have tried so hard to get along with people (too hard) that it left me open and they struck.

I am sort of grateful that I am alone now. At least I am not being preyed on.

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The same thing happens to me as well.
I think that Negative Symptoms has something to do with it also.

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