I went to the store earlier and seen whom I thought was a friend but not she had to have seen me and just ghosted me or ignored me like I wasn’t even there. Even though recently I was there for her when her mom passed. I seen her again when leaving the store same thing she didn’t even notice me say hey or anything and she had to have seen me I am not hard to miss and I am not Invisible. Am I wrong for being upset? Or should I just let this person go and move on I seen her true colors on numerous occasions I am so done with her so called pretend friendship maybe there was no friendship to start with between us I already deleted her on Facebook and her number she wants to ghost me fine two can play that game. Rant over there is no friendship anymore probably never was to start with,
Maybe she’s depressed and doesn wanna see anyone
I usually don’t like talking with friends when I’m running errands its a social anxiety thing I can understand her view
Yes, I ran into a friend in a store and she just glared at me. I don’t know why. Not public friends I guess.
I recommend texting her and asking if that was her at the store. It can open a dialogue. What if it was just someone who looked like her? What if it was a bad day for her and her mind was so engrossed in her issues she really didn’t notice you. I wouldn’t jump straight to accusations. Give her the benefit of the doubt unless she says something that makes you realizeit was a real issue first
Sometimes a person will legit not see you. Maybe if you said hi she would of turned around but yeah if you can text her then do it. I get you though sometimes I feel like people don’t wanna be around me also
Sometimes I get social anciety when I see someone I know at a place I was not expecting to see them. I overthink it and wonder if it is really them or just someone who looks like them (I have a bit of face blindness) and then get convinced they don’t want to talk to me so I say nothing.
You also didnt go say hi to her. Maybe she is home thinking the same stuff as you right now.
I have 1 good friend who I’m still talking to like a year later.
I get ghosted all the time. Like, usually within 24 hours.
She just texted me this morning she said she didn’t see me next time I see her I will speak to her first she also said if she seen me she would of spoke to me and said she was sorry.
ah that’s good.
yep we have made amends so far she is the only friend I have in real life I have only one friend we have been friends since childhood.
My father thought he saw my psychiatrist shopping in a TJ Max once.
It might not have been her.
oh it was really her
Sometimes I feel so low that I try to avoid contact with people I know when I see them…I don’t feel worthy.
Why didn’t you go up to her? She could have easily assumed you didn’t want to talk if you didn’t go over.
I always avoid people anyway and people avoid me I don’t know why I am always in a hurry when I go to the store I want to get in and get out without any type of socializing I don’t go there to socialize or make friends I am there to buy groceries and then come home. I also avoid eye contact does anyone else do that when someone stares you dead in the eyes? It makes me extremely uncomfortable so I tend to look away or look down. I had a few baggers at the store speak to me and it just makes me anxious when having to talk to anyone other than family and friends I don’t talk much to anyone unless they were to speak to me first or someone whom I am familiar with I will talk to them. Online makes it easy for me to get my feelings and point of view across but in real public life I am rather shy and standoffish and not too trusting of people. Maybe its my mental illness that makes me that way or maybe I was going to be that way to begin with.
I am shy and I always wait for people to approach me you are
right I should of went up and said something to her
She could have assumed you were avoiding her based on body language.
yes she might of assumed right sometimes I see her and do avoid her so I am not in the store real long talking she likes to tell me all her problems at times and sometimes I don’t want to hear it cause I have my own set of problems or just want to get out of there in a hurry
It is good you both got to talk and clean the air. Now you know your expectations with each other.