Ignoring a friend from high school

A friend from high school that I see once a year at most texted me yesterday, asking to meet up within the next few days because she’s in town.

I’m too nervous. I have not even replied yet.

Can anyone relate? If I ignore her what will happen?

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I’ve got a similar friend. They’re in the country 2 or 3 times a year.

The last time I said I wasn’t feeling great and would rather not meet up. They were fine with it.

If you ignore them , they’ll just feel ghosted and you’ll probably never see them again.

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I would think it would be better to just say you arent feeling up to it than to ignore the texts. You might lose a friend if you just start ignoring her.

Its more respectful to at least reply.

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Why don’t you want to meet this person?

Yeah probs best just to say your not up for it cause of anxiety or something.
I do that a lot with people. Cause its true. Im bad with people these days.

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