I think it depends how prepared for the chance that your child will have problems and how well you are able to deal with it. Sounds like your mom is just making that calculation for you
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I rage still against my mom, dont pay attention to me. Its still my illness… Moonwalker, i have a lot work to do now in order to see what i want from life. I worsened very much and this lasted two decades… I lost socialty, my mental and physical health. So i dont lie myself about the kids, its far from me, but i am fighting for my mental health now. So i am still not prepared for kids, but maybe in the future.
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Kids are also an insane amount of work. I always thought I’d want 2-3 until I had my first. Now I’m content to stop there. He’s a great baby too and I feel lucky, but feeding schedules and playtime mean it’s almost non stop.
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