My mother said again that ill never have anyhting in life. How to react to this?

She is so sure of this… she said again that ill never have a family cause I am ill. The only reaction which she provocs in me with these kind of comments is anger and hate.
Why she talks like this, do you have a clue? I cant understand this in fact…

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Otherwise, for the news, I think that I found another good pdoc here and ill go to see him for advice and to eventually confirm my diagnosis… But right now, I feel like the victim of bad treatment towards me in my family… idk what you think on this but since my diagnosis nobody believes in me in my family. I am paranoid, ok, but i really hear all the time that i am ill and that ill be probably forever alone.

@Anna1 don’t pay attention to your mother.
You have my full support.
I don’t need anything from you, I am ready to support you unconditionally.
However, I myself my own condition is very poor.
If my condition was better I would have been able to fly to Bulgaria and help you improve.

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If you are are still under age 32ish then of course you can still have kids if that is what you mean by family. After 35ish then it is best to adopt.

As far as a Significant Other is concerned, i think people can meet whenever.

My partner and i have been together for about 10 years. I heard all the time from my parents it was just a fad, i don’t know what love is. Then from my in-laws i hear they are sad they don’t have more natural grandchildren. They have one grandchild then 5 adopted

How to react?

"Mom, don’t be so negative, it’s not helping. If you cant say anything nice, don’t say anything at all "

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