My mom doesn't respect me

Fúck that. They’re just using it as an excuse to hurt you. Do they know you don’t like it?

I try to talk to my mom about how she treats me but she refuses to hear it, sites technicalities and semantics, says that my memory is off because of schizophrenia.

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My mom did this to me. She did hurtful things then tried to convince me I was misremembering. It is a form of emotional abuse.

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My mother was the exact same way. I had a full time job, so I could pay my bills. I feel for you. If it was me I’d lock myself in my bedroom.

Anonymous has nothing to do with it. We are people.

I got used to it, no other choice. Like oolaloola said I often lock myself in my room with loud music on my PC or my headphones.
Music helps me, I listen to music 24/7 and on my cellphone too in the bathroom and when showering.

Not interested in being taken to the hospital, lol. That’s all that’d come of that.

Chordy, I wasn’t talking about anyone here, I didn’t call anyone anything, I did nothing to you. You’re entitled to an opinion, but I’m entitled to thinking that opinion is stupid. Choosing to curse doesn’t make me less of a human being. Getting my anger out by using the f-bomb isn’t morally wrong. Better than keeping it inside and then blowing up in someone’s face.

What type of music do you listen to? I like punk rock the most.

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Man that’s tough, because you don’t have a way out. I hope you get through it.

Everyone has his own music taste, I like rap, reggaeton, RnB, dance hall, French and Arabic music.

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You could be the count of monte cristo and get your revenge in the end.

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ok there are a lot of worse behaviors, that is true. I just find it offensive.

And that’s your prerogative, but to suggest that I don’t deserve to be respected because of my particular word choice outside of the situation was, in my opinion, far more disrespectful than someone throwing around the f-bomb. It’s your right not to like curse words, but I’m still a human being.

I’m afraid I don’t get the reference. I’ve never read the count of Monte Cristo. I actually don’t read much. Never have been a big reader even before sz.

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Well basically it’s about an innocent man who was then sent to prison for life. He escaped with the help of an old men who told him where to find a hidden treasure. So he escaped, got the treasure, and became a rich guy, who decided to get his revenge on everyone who was involved in his imprisonment. Worlds greatest plot. :grin::grin::grin:

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حزين sad
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@Sardonic. To me it sounds like abuse. If you’re being abused there’s help out there. There are domestic violence shelters that can help you even to find your own gov subsidized place.

I’m kinda stuck myself. My dad’s not abusive but just short tempered and it’s hard sometimes. Luckily I own my mobile home so I don’t live with him. We are neighbors though.

No, my mom is not an abuser, she cares for me and will help me go to college when all this is over. She’s just an ásshole sometimes.

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Aren’t we all sometimes!

I would say your mom loves you but she doesn’t know how to support you. My mom is like that too. Every time I try to study or work, she always discourages me and tells me I cannot succeed. Anyways, I just don’t argue with her or dwell on it.

I do the same, just ignore your family.
I become homeless and die without my family support. I see ignoring them in exchange for their support as a good deal. :slightly_smiling_face:

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