Yesterday, my husband accepted a call from his cousin,
While on the phone with them he hurriedly told me he was planning a trip with them.
He comes out on the phone with another friend, explaining the trip he just booked.
A week in a city I don’t like, with some of his family I less than enjoy.
So I told him he needed to get off the phone so we could talk about it.
He did, and told me what they had planned.
I was super pissed.
He planned a whole week without even consulting me or asking what I wanted to do.
When I got upset he told me I was being ungrateful and didn’t have to go.
I got even more upset and he told me I could change any aspect of the trip if I wanted.
So I said I wanted to change the dates, he refused.
Then his friend showed up and we couldn’t fight anymore.
He slept on the couch and we haven’t talked.
Would you be upset?
Or just happy to be going on a trip?
I really feel strongly he should have included me in planning but I don’t know if I’m overreacting.