My feelings are hurt

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She and my husband really hit it off when they’re together. When I’ve had her and my other friend over, we’re basically silent while she and my husband talk.

I guess that’s why it hurts so much is I know they both really enjoy each other’s company

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I’m sorry. I understand why your feelings are hurt. I don’t like that she said she has more fun when your husband comes with you and I think you said earlier that she picked a place for brunch that you don’t like.

That said, I know it’s a five year friendship and that she’s done some nice things for you.

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Id talk to your husband about it

It sounds like your friend may have feelings for him just by what youve wrote

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Maybe they are like best friends but it’s not sexual.

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That’s what I think. I talked to my husband about it and he thinks she just wants to be friends

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Its up to you and what you’re comfortable with.

Your friend might just like spending time with both of you together.

Id just be watchful if it were me

I had a friend who was more interested in my hubby but we fizzled out because not much in common

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I trust my husband so I may do that - just be watchful and see what I think over time.

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Think this is good idea. Maybe they have things in common, but he loves you not her.

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Well that was extremely r00d. Cross that one off the list.

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She may just be fond of him as a friend, or she may have feelings. In both cases she was rude.

I’d take a step back and be careful. Depending on the worth of the friendship I would talk about it.

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It sounds pretty sinister to me, like maybe she has designs on your husband, and she is trying to soften you up for the blow. I wouldn’t act precipitously, but I think you need to distance yourself from her substantially.

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I’ve decided to make a suggestion of double dates. She doesn’t have anyone right now but it’s a hint that he’s with me and she needs to find her own man.

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