Now I would just ignore him but he owes me a lot of money. In the thousands. I keep hoping he will send me a bit of it anyway. It’s been years since we’ve been together. He is truly a horrid person. He wants to meet me for coffee next week. I told him he’d need to send a minimum of $500 in order for me to agree. What are your thoughts?
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Take him to court judge judy style.
He’s very careful about covering his ass. I have no way of proving so it just becomes he said she said.
I think it depends on how bad you need the $
Go if he’s giving you money, my opinion.
I have tons of dental stuff to do so I really do need it
I’ll likely go if he sends money
Ask him write a cheque and take a picture of it and send the image to you. Also, ask him to write a text to you that says that he’ll give you money if you meet him.
If you have an online banking account, ask him to transfer the money to your account.
Cheers.
None of the above. Demand he pay up now or youre going to court.
Then I would say get the money
No judge Judy. She will not award you any money if you are not working and on disability. She b****** about those kind of people and how they should be working.
Oh geez 
I didn’t realise.
You need to consider if you want to get involved with him again. Could be he is a sticky person that it is hard to get rid of. If you do go back with him he will probably milk you for more money. Do you think you can brush him off if he does that? Can you say no to him? I think you should forget him but still hound him for the money.
I would never ever go back to him. He is a bad bad man. I would never allow him in my house. We would only meet in public if he sends the money first. Thankfully my phone number is changed so he doesn’t know it and in the new year the kids and I will be moving so he won’t know where we live. I’m thankful about that.
If he is the kind of person you have to worry about safety with, is it worth the risk? Even if it is to get money, maybe it’s better not to associate with him.
When he would have intentions to pay you he would done it already. He is a con artist you just loose more supporting him.
He was abusive but more sexually and verbally than physically. But I would never trust him in my home again
From what you are saying and what you have said in the past @FatMama your ex sounds very much like a narcissistic prick. I would avoid him at all costs and go no contact as he will only cause you more pain and suffering. Narcissists will always be liars and cheaters - do not trust him. The money for your teeth will come, or you will get that phone call from the dental hospital - have faith.
Sometimes you just have to cut your losses. This person has abused you and you don’t want them to know your phone number or where you live. I think you are done with this man and shouldn’t respond to any of his emails.
My daughter’s dad ran up a phone bill in my name. In the divorce it was ordered that he pay the bill. He never paid a dime.