This is just one example of many but I am considering not talking to him at least for a long time.
I asked him to borrow money until I get disability coming in, which I will get just not sure exactly when. Lawyer said probably by next month since I have a simple case but who knows. He was on board with it and said it was OK. Then not even 24 hrs after he sends it he drags me through the dirt for the money by saying I need that money back you know why didn’t you ask someone else for it?? When I literally have no one else. He’s mad because the only other time I’ve borrowed money from him it took so long to pay him back he ended up just giving me the money for Christmas. Which I didn’t ask for so it was a gift. He held that over my head acting like I wouldn’t pay him back again. So I sent the money back, then he texted me and gaslit me about my feelings about how he talked to me (his tone of voice was also really harsh and defensive). I was just communicating like an adult who was angry. I think I had a very normal reaction to his behavior. And he said “I didn’t hurt your feelings, I didn’t do anything wrong.”
I’m proud of myself for standing up for myself.
My mom also texted me he threatened to kick her out for no reason.
He’s got anger issues and I’m sick of dealing with it. He treats EVERYONE he’s close to like this. It’s not just me.