My best friend, Dan just died the end of June. It’s f****** crushing. He was the only friend I had that I could call at 4 in the morning when I needed a friend. He’s the one I would call, to make me see the Ridiculousness of life, and get me to laugh about it. Now when I need him most, he’s not there
I can’t count how many times I’ve picked up the phone and then realized he’s gone. And it’s breaking my f****** heart
Im so sorry man. I cant imagine losing someone that close, I went crazy after my mom died and I hadnt even seen her for 4 years. He sounds like a wonderful person and its a tragedy that he had to go
Yeah, losing my mom was one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through in my life. This is a very close second, maybe even worse in some ways.
Mom and I never saw eye-to-eye, but I still loved her. With Dan the Los feels brutal. I would rather lose a leg then a good friend. It would be so much easier to deal with
Thanks @LilyoftheValley I know you’re right, it’s bound to get better with time. I don’t think this is one of those losses I’ll ever get over. Just a bit less painful with time
Sorry to hear you lost your best friend as well. It’s not easy is it
@Cragger, you are valued member of this community, I think you got a lot of friends here…
My friend fron elementary, college… Up to my 30’s died from sz induced suicide.
Day before he kinda called me to say goodbye.
He couldnt bare paranoia…
I’m so sorry to hear that @anon22846033 . It must have been very hard on your friend for him to follow through. My sympathies
My friend said goodbye to me several times on the phone. He lost his entire family within eight months of each other. His father, then his mother than his brother.
He was suicidal for about two and a half years, and I talked him down off the roof a couple of dozen times. What a sick twist of fate that he recovered from depression, only to die of a heart attack. F*** me
I lost my sister in her early 30’s to cancer. She was my best friend too, so I know what you mean about the shock of it all. It’s been almost ten years now.
Thanks, good advice. Believe me, the tears have hit me several times tonight. There’s no stopping tidal wave like that. I think I’m just going to numb out to some TV