I’m on okcupid and there’s this girl who volunteered at the same place I did. We share the love for animals. She has like a million pets and she seems real interested in me. I told her I just wanna be friends because I’m moving in September…but I’ve never felt so confident about meeting someone from a dating site. She doesn’t drink or drug either…she owns 7 raptors and countless other pets. We’re really bonding. She’s only 19 but seems to have a good head on her shoulders.
She said “you would love my birds!” Which makes me think she wants to meet. It’d be cool to have a friend.
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Way to go ttp! You deserve a break.
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It would be nice to have a friend who shares the same interests as you! Go for it TTP.
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I have a ‘cockatoo’ joke in my deck, but I’m not gonna play it. 
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Not necessarily on the meeting thing. I’d advise you don’t push it. She is young and it’d be hella awkward for ya if she still lived with her rents.
She was probably just expressing how cool her birds are to someone who can appreciate it.
I know you’re a good dude. Glad you got a girly to talk to for the time being. God knows that’s all I really want. Tough as ■■■■ to find apparently lol.
Everyone is going indie and doesn’t spend too much time with anyone… Fair enough though… Their call. Damn dude though I just want to find a good broad and cash out.
My friend is always trash talking the concepts of relationships. People just run off and enter into a mutual solipsistic experience… [And then eventually it falls to ■■■■… They expect sympathy blah blah.]
Hah it’s hilarious though… I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting one and i don’t think they have to be perfect either. Nor do they come to an end.
Unfortunately I’ll probably waiting another 5 years before these girls in their 20s want to start settling down. So it goes.
Big ups though man. Good for you.
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A good broad Sosy? 
I find girls in the 25-30 year old range want the 40 year old men. They want it all, the house, the car, the vacations, the security…without having to work at it over the long haul with a partner in their same age bracket.
Kinda cynical of me, but I believe it to be true in many cases.
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Well man better than the overly anxious escapist/trying to live down old relationships type broads. Someone who is looking to be constructive and isn’t just living for thrills… Tired of these lost soul type chicks… Go in listening to their troubles wanting to help them and then you realize they are just perpetuating their real struggles… And then their issues seem more like a sympathy plow to sucker you in so they can get off on having your attention… But only when they want it… Best to just ■■■■ off otherwise… Or you’ll wind up pissed about someone who doesn’t even deserve attention in the first place.
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Ah nah just coming out of a really dissapointing situation…
What’s the expression?
“Any man that hates all women, really only hates one particular woman”
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I know it’s hard @Azley, I’ve had my fair share of shitty experiences with women, but eventually you’ll find the right one. And (Cliché alert) it’ll probably be when you aren’t looking.
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Yeah exacrtly dude… I just want to find that next one that balances the experience…
I’ll quit making this about me meow…
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When I broke up with my gal when I was 20, I couldn’t stand women for a very long time. Then I met my future wife and it all worked out.
You’re a good catch. You’ll find your match some day…probably sooner than you expect.
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I know this is derailing the thread, but how long have you been married? And did you get sick before or after your relationship started?
Met my gal in 1990…married in 2000…Dx’d in 2005…
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@sarad deserves more respect than being anyone’s plan b. I can’t really help her out.
Together 26 years! That’s an accomplishment. Congratulations. I’ve been with mine for 8, and I certainly hope it lasts. She tells me that no matter what, she’ll always at least take care of me lol, so if she leaves me she’s still gonna be stuck with me lol.
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Yeah. We’ve been together so long…
Me: “Honey? Where’s that thing?”
Wife: “On the top shelf in the bedroom closet.”
We can read each other’s minds.
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Lordy, lordy @Samp!
Sara gonna give ya the ‘snappy air zee’ for all the sass!
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She knows I love her. I deleted my posts anyway, so she is going to be confused.