i clicked with her alot inside the bar and asked her out last week,we were suppose to meet this saturday and i will fetch her to a mall.My main purpose is to get intimidate with her hold her hands or kiss.I am not really nervous but also feel neutral about it and not looking forward.Two day pass very fast,hope it will be a successful date.
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Congratulations! But don’t worry too much about kissing her, it could ruin the date if that’s your mind state. Just be yourself and have a good time the kiss will come eventually and maybe much more too if you’re patient 
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Hah Gtx1990 has finally got a lead!
Yeah what jon is saying is the absolute truth. If you are going on a first date, be nothing but curious about her.
If you were clicking with her before that might be how it is on the date… just don’t smother her. Let her lead the conversation if she ever shows the inclination.
Hanging with girls can’t just be a physical thing or else someone is going to feel left out. It’s a whole lot easier if you really want to know who she is… and that curiosity about her dominates the sexual undertones.
Good luck man… Also this might be happening for you now, but it won’t be the last time. If you learn to enjoy talking to women it gets a lot easier to keep things in context… Let yourself enjoy trying to find them and talk to them and you might automatically keep your feelings in check… cause this one might not be your one bro.
And I’m not talking about you being right for her… I’m talking about her being right for you. Gotta find those girls who really appreciate who you are.
Otherwise I’m really glad to hear you got a date planned! I’ve had quite a few at this point so I jsut want to add… if she flakes on you… it’s not worth thinking about… if she flakes then it’s not worth it at all.
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Yes, these two guys are absolutely right. If you go on this date with the goal of kissing or getting intimate on your first date she will pick that up in a heartbeat and it will probably be awkward and wreck the date. Take it slow and don’t come across as desperate or needy. First dates are supposed to be about getting to know each other and having fun.
Just let things progress slowly and naturally.
Yea what the three guys above said, dont force it. The ppl u see at the malls holding hands are legitamite couples. Take it slow and see when things feel right. If ur not looking forward to it, thats not a good sign. U should want to spend time with her cuz u enjoy it.
I would definitely make it a point to just get to know her better on your first date.
Gtx1990 walks into a bar…
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