First Date I went home after waiting for two hours outside lol
Second time I think she wasn’t feeling too well. I mean I was exhausted and kinda not into it to go out either tbh. She uses opiates and live in a shelter so I wouldn’t blame her if she wasn’t feeling too well.
I remember when I was younger their was this girl who would always flirt with me. I was totally into her. She one time walked out of the shower half naked. You know I stuck around. I would always hint I was interested in her. She was just a tease and I wasn’t the only guy. I think she was an exhibitionist and got off on attention. We were friends for years. Years later I remembered her and looked her up on Facebook. She said she didn’t remember who I was. This girl was my world; the object of a million fantasies. Luckily I moved on and found better women with time. It just goes to show you never know a persons motivation. My perception of things versus her perception. Who am I? Was her response. It’s like I got stabbed in the heart.
I think @ZombieMombie 's philosophy in another thread applies here.
Don’t chase the…um D. Ok, maybe D doesn’t apply here but you get my point.
If you chase too hard you are either going to appear desperate, which isnt good, or scare her away altogether.
She doesnt seem to being showing much motivation in keeping your dates and appointments. It would seem to show a lack of interest in you in that way IMO, but I could be wrong. There could be other factors at play.
But what do I know? I’m single too…by choice, but single nonetheless.
This doesnt necessarily mean that interest can’t develop, but you need to play it cool and not send her a thousand texts a day. You don’t want to appear to be begging her for a date and you dont want to scare her off.