I am a submissive person because of past issues. I’ve come to terms with that and I want to find a medication to increase my submissive nature. Basically I want to find a medication that makes me not want to fight and completely submit. Open for offers and suggestions
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What’s the benefit of being submissive?
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That does not sound healthy. Life should be balanced. Some medications may make you lose motivation to do things and make it hard to take initiative, or make it hard to handle a conversation, but that’s different than submission. I don’t think any medications directly makes anyone submissive. Weak maybe, but who wants to be weak if they can help it?
ive become really submissive over the years. idk how or why. but i just dont care anymore. i dont bother arguing or anything. i think i just got tired of the effort.
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I’ve always been submissive and I’m so used to it that I’m getting tired of the conflict in my mind about things I have to have control over that I’m tired of the fighting that total submission and having someone in control of me is my only option that I need.
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I’m almost to the point of finding someone close that what’s total control of me
are independent or able to care for your self?
submit to your healthcare team. thats your safest bet.
no. don’t find someone who controls you.
not healthy for you or the other person.
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I have found people before that have wanted control but can never fully deliver and I think it’s because I’m still fighting. That’s why I was looking into medication that will make my submission more and make it easier for them.
no. i just saw your other post on the sexual thread
having these fantasy is fine. but living it out and seeking it out is dangerous.
i cant understand what you are going through.
but have you told your pdoc or therapist about any of this?
You don’t need meds. You need therapy. What you are asking for is not healthy.
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Honestly, I don’t think this is the place to be asking these type of questions.
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I’m sorry and you are probably right
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I understand everyone has their kinks just be safe about it.
I have an appointment with a therapist in a couple of days. In a way I hope he helps but in another way I hope he doesn’t.
You know most people don’t want to hurt others.
If you find someone who does. You can be in danger
Do talk to your therapist I hope they help you process this
I completely understand and I will be on the lookout
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Dont get submissiv. Get peacefully and agreable.
If people step on you then ignore them Im sure you are a valueable person.
For years I was an ego fixated person with a bad social cognition. This is the road to disaster.
I m so glad that I ve finally gotten healed from irretating people and getting the last word. I like my new ability to avoid to start up an argument.
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Thank you for the advice. I’m just naturally submissive and with a bad sexual abuse childhood it’s really hard to see anything but submissive
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