I kinda felt bad after chatting with him yesterday, so I haven’t been bothering him. He just pinged me on chat to see if I was okay.
The thing that bothered me was he thought I make $3000 a month where I only get $2000 a month. He doesn’t think you can live on $2000 a month. Anyway, I never told him I make $3k a month.
Doesn’t he have an income? If he has the same as you you would have $4000 and I would assume you can live on that.
Also, if love is about money you have to decide if you want that.
He has his own income. He just doesn’t think I can live on $2k a month. I thought he was going to get his own place here when he relocates, and I was going to stay in my apartment for the time being.
I would add I live in low income housing and his income would put us over the limit to stay here.
My expenses are also below $2k a month so I know it’s possible to live off a budget.
Perhaps he was hoping you were wealthier.
Maybe so. I’m going to wait and see what happens. I do care about him though.
He says he will take care of me. I’m just kinda independent now and don’t know about being dependant one someone else.
Just take it step by step.
I would first video chat.
Then meet in person.
Go on a date
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Invite all sz.com members on your marriage 
I surely will. 15
Its about time he got around to the financial part of this. I’m telling you, this military man scam is all over right now. Please stop talking to him. It’s a very high probability that its some Nigerian scammer.
Ask for a picture where he holds a dated paper up.
Thanks @anon4362788 @Jonathan2 I will.
Why is this new beau of yours interested in your income?
Red flag right there. Ditch this scammer now before you get hurt financially and emotionally.
Yeah I have to say, if you havn’t met him yet, he shouldnt be asking for your income. Its not his business unless you know each other and are close and feel comfortable. My friends family and dates literally never ask about my income and if they do I’d only really tell my friends who I cared about a lot and thought they should know.
Be cautious @anon54988740 that this person isnt trying to take your funds. If they ask you to send them money cut the cord. Just block.
Let’s do the math…
He’s a military man. He has lost his wallet and all of his ID. He can’t disclose his location for security reasons. He’s asking you about your income.
Dude, wake up! This nefarious person might even try to meet you in person…with a possible violent outcome. Stop the contact with him immediately.
Thanks @Patrick @StarCrazy
These scammers prey on the vulnerable. He’s not who you think he is. Get out. Now!
I don’t think he’ll listen. He has his mind made up that he cares about him.
I know it is hard to see any sense when you fall for someone. But he’s not even met the person. I am worried.
I understand your concern. But some people only learn by making the mistakes themselves.
Thanks @anon25873142 @Jonathan2. I do love and care about him, but he’s going to have to show up here where I live. So I can get to know him better. I don’t have the money to finance him. I can just support myself. He would have to support himself too.