In a complicated fix

DX'd - Other
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So, I joined the website friend finder.com…and guess what? A very hot lady (Pamela Anderson material body wise) told me that she is willing to relocate/visit any part of the world to meet me. I discourage her that it is not possible, I live further away, but she keeps on insisting that we converse and that she is ready to relocate even in this part of the world.

Here’s the fix. I have Social Anxiety. I will have to muster courage to talk with her and she is asking me for my contact information.
Secondly, I am living with my parents. Even if she visits this place, I would not be able to entertain her.

So, what to do…I have been ignoring her, but she checks my profile out every now and again, and I get an email that she is checking me out. I don’t know what to do…any suggestions are appreciated.

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Hmmm…

Sounds highly suspect.

Perhaps this “friend” that you “found” is in fact a Nigerian prince?

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She’s a fake. Been there before. How long have you met her for?

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Sure its not scam

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100 percent real. It is a verified profile. She is asking me for my number to converse with me. Not money or anything. In fact, she would be travelling here so she is the one spending money. However, I cannot muster courage to talk with her.

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Telling ya:

100 do not pass go.

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Probably a scam. Even if she is real there are some major bad signs being tossed up.

I would continue to avoid.

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Once money is requested from you or a need to buy cryptocurrency is involved. Say good-bye to her.

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No, this one is not asking for money. There was one other that was…I knew she was a fake.

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She hasn’t asked…YET.

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No, she is asking for my number to converse. She works bro. She hasn’t hinted for money.

There was this other one. She was asking me for money, trying to bluff me. I knew it all along, I entertained her for awhile, and then I ignored her. This one is cent per cent real.

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How long have you known her for? How long will you two keep communicating for until she starts to ask for money?

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Bro she is saying she doesn’t mind relocating/visiting. She has a full-time job. I chatted with her. No hint of money. She is interested, I told her I lived in NY for 15 years. But, I live here now.

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This sounds very strange. Definitely don’t give them your address. Lol!

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Its a con mate.You wanna try doing a reverse image lookup on google with the picture - and i put money on it “she” will turn up elsewhere.

It will be asking for your bank details to “pay for the flight” next.

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Any advice for sufferers of social anxiety to deal with this situation?

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You didn’t say how long you’ve known her for. Time & duration will out due anything.

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You don’t understand. Scammers with hot pictures waste not much time on people who they know are less likely to pay them. They have limited time. If the profile is verified the person exists, that is certain. Why would she be wasting time with me?

The one that asked money was to the point. She told me that in the first 20 minutes. I bluffed her for a day, that I couldn’t send her money the banks are closed at this time. Then I ignored her…this one is a real person, and not a scammer.

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If I was you, I know it is perhaps tempting, but I would cut them off because it could get really bad and only worsen your self esteem. And your feeling of security.

It is always best to meet people from websites in a public place for a while before going to theirs.

Me personally I don’t let anyone know where I live.

My family don’t even know. Though that is probably extreme for some.

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Fair enough - but any hint of bank accounts and transactions and i would run for the hills.

I still think your getting mugged off .